What do you feel when there are people saying mean things about you?

if they say that to you face to face,maybe they care about you,and maybe they are not intentional.i have that kind of experience,from somone who i dont really know very much.i got mad when he said that,but when i calm down,i admit,what he had said,is sort of right. now i am learning not to care about other people's opinion on me(except those useful and meaningful),just leave them behind me.that will feel better.

am... shut up or your going home whit a jaw in two pieces :) nah just joking words are just words when somebody uses them to attack another it just shows you how weak that person really is and he tries to compensate whit his mouth i just tend to ignor them or give them the finger but if he pushes the envelope to far i will show him that my actions are stronger than his words

Like you i too hate to hear this type of comments from unknown people.If someone says like this i will openly fight with them and say its none of their business to interfere in mine.But defenetly i feel sad and feel for sometime thinking of why they hurted me like this.Iam trying to change my attitude with relate to this.

"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me!' Ever hear that saying? It's a handy bit of bravado but, the truth is, words do hurt - sometimes as badly as sticks and stones. Unfortunately, there are more people with cruel things to say than there are minutes in a day. If I devote all my time to trying to figure out why they say the things they say, I'd have no time left over for my own psyche. So, instead of worrying about their unhappy childhoods or whatever makes them so mean, I focus on my own self-improvement plan. As long as I am confident and at peace with my person progress, it doesn't really matter what they say. The most they can get out of me is compassion - what a shame that they don't know the real me! For every person that says that I am a spoiled b*tch, I can find 3 people who think that I am a sweetheart. Hey, they have a right to their opinion. Just don't make their opinion your fact. Remember, opinions are like a**holes, everybody has one and they're not all sweet!

if they are just making things up that are not true then just ignore it if its true things , maybe then you have to deal with it , internally while you lie awake at night

i feel insulted, to those who insult you they just envy you:)

If someone that I don't know say bad things about me, that is the least of my concerns because I don't worry about what other people think about me.