Amongst all your EX's, with whom are you willing to give it a second shot???

well...i only have i think 2-3 ex's in my life...and i've already reconciled with my ex whose name is Joy...we were in college together and had a relationship for 2 yrs when i left her for another woman...then after spending a 6-yr relationship w/ this woman...we broke up and our lives crossed again and we found ourselves inlove once more...so here we are growing stronger w/ a more matured love and trust. So i guess you really can't say past is past...you never expect what will come to you...

I'm married too, so none of them would have a second shot at good old me, but if I wasnt married it would have been the last one.

thats an easy question. Robert. was with him for about 5 years. and nothing has every hurt as badly as losing him did. and still does to some extent.

First, remember the reasons you guys split up, sit down with him and explain to him those reasons, then tell him your answer and your reasons for that answer. if it's to get back together, then tell him he has to rebuild the trust he destroyed and you're willing to work on that, but you really have to be willing with an open heart. If you decide no, then explain to him why you're turning him down, and be honest, don't give him some junk about it being you and not him, that just pisses guys off and confuses them.