How are your Ex's? (ex friends and ex lovers) Are they better without you?
By lissienpaul
@lissienpaul (478)
Philippines
March 25, 2007 4:30am CST
Do you sometimes think about their status now? Do you hope that they are doing fine/bad despite/inspite of what happened between the two of you?
When we hear of our ex's relationships with another that sounded like they broke up, do you feel happy, saying to yourself that you're still the best one he/she could ever have? Or do you feel that you finally took revenge after what he/she did to you?
5 responses
@shezah (46)
• Pakistan
25 Mar 07
This is true that whenever you come to know that your Ex has broken up with his new found love and the relation ship is over you feel certian satisfaction same happened with me that the person i loved and when we broke off and news of him being depressed and lonely without me and not adjusting with any one gave me a certain feel os satiiffaction that im still the best in his life although it is a selfish thought but even then this is what truth is.
@lissienpaul (478)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
yes, shezah. We cant help feeling that way. If that's wrong, the I'm guilty.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
Time heals. I don't want to take revenge at all when I found out that my best friend left me and don't hang on me when I am on the lowest time of my life. The best description that would fit me like this is that, 'Am I better without them?' ANd yes, I did. I no longer need them because I learned to manage my problem alone without them.
@lissienpaul (478)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
you must have experienced that, neon2000. It hurts so bad, right? But after all, you are better and stronger.
@Matadoor (47)
• Sweden
27 Mar 07
I dont like to be in such a way that makes others be unhappy.I like my ex friend and lovers be always pleased.
@mr_dean37 (20)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
hmm for me i would still communicate with my x we stay as friends... but for my partners x depends on the personality of the x u can tell from how ur partner tells something about the x u can conclude if is it ok for ur partner to communicate with the x!!! for my x i would be much happy if my x would be happy!!
