the one you love or the one who loves you?

the one who loves me....though i will miss the one i love, but i knw jst loving is not important but in life u need true love......

I did have the chance to choose, few times.. First and second times, I went for the one who loves me. They were my friends when they asked me to be their gf, so I went out with them. But then I realized that it wasn't easy to love someone that you didn't love. So I gave up on it. After that, I always choose the one I love. I don't wanna fool myself and feel pity for those who loves me. Even people says that choosing the one who loves you is much better. I still think the other choice is better. It's true that loving someone without being loved in return is painful. But I'm ready for heartbreak anyway. Of course I'll feel sad for sometimes. But I'll be fine afterwards. Nothing to be worried about. :)

I'd hope to have both, which I think I have now, but I'd choose the one who loves me, if I had too. Because I agree with the first poster, chasing something that will never be is just making yourself miserable.

I think I would choose the one who loves me... It's wonderful to be loved. But to not have your love returned is extremely painful.