What is the best way to discipline your child?

always talk to your child if you see him doin something bad, remind him the good attitude that he must engage to...alway do that. especially having faith to God....always teach him the good way to life...

then you should not discipline our son, do it to your father.. eheheh.. joking aside, it really is hard to discipline children. nobody knows when is it enough to spank or to talk to them.. but i think it is also better for the child to learn the lesson himself... and spank your father.. hehehhe

You need an arbitrator above anything else who will come in the way of you, your son and his grandfather to pinpoint who is correct... Grandy's are their to spoil the sons/daughters for years, but, ultimately it does not matter much because boys/girls usually pick up quickly who is correct. Another way to mould your kids is by setting example yourself. Instead of telling your son to read, you start reading before him in the evening. A reasonable application of this method helps a lot to mould their mindset.