y is it?

no i dont think that my partner loves me less than my love for her. The difference may be in the way we express our love but over time we have learnt how to tell each other that we love each and care for each other.

no matter what one says.we ought to always beleive in our own self more than we can beleive our spouses..thats the reason we have faith in our own love more than that we feel of our spouse.

I feel that way because my husband spends a lot of time reminding me to appreciate him without showing some for me. He puts me first sometimes, but 95% of the time I am last on his list. Besides the fact that I would never expect the things from him that he expects from me. I put up with all of his crap and I don't throw it in his face everytime he does something wrong, but let me have a bad day or do something wrong at it makes national headlines for weeks. I feel like I love him more than me because I would be willing to sacrifice more for him than he would for me, it is proven everyday. He comes first always.

...because we do not feel that we are loved the way we wanted to be. If our partner loves us in a different way, we hardly appreciate it, unless its something we recognize. if we do not accept his manifestations of love as acts of love ,his efforts go to waste because we do not recognize those and consider those as acts of affection. if we have learned to recognize the different ways people express their feelings, them we will learn to appreciate it and count even the smallest things they do for us.. therefore, we will not say that we are loved less.. there's a quote that says, "If a person does not love you the way you wanted to be loved, it does not mean that they love you less." I think this is exactly what happens to most of us. We seldom consider that we could be loved in ways that are not very much like ours that's why we say that we are loevd less...