Was I right to speak all this? Do you think I've right to get angry on this guy?
By samrat16
@samrat16 (2442)
India
March 25, 2007 11:57am CST
Today I got responded by a guy who had only 21 responses and some 5 discussions started .This guy was insulting me that I am wrong on my side and don't post discussions of quality to get responded .
He said I don't put quality in my posts.
I grew real angry and wrote the following to him...
Was anything wrong which I wrote to him??
Tell me how old you are on mylot.
Your total response are 21 and my best responses are 50 .
I suppose this tell all the story.
Any way who the hell asked your advice.
This discussion was meant for my friends.
I reply to them and I wanted respond from them.
look at my profile anyhow my disuccions have got responses.
What about you???
I know how deep you are in water.
regarding posts don't speak a single word with me.
MY every post has got more than ten responses as I grew mature on mylot.
none of my discussion is blank
stop poking your nose when you are not invited to.
1,3,10,2,3,0 are number of responses to your discussions.
I'm giving you my last 10 discussion data to compare...
30,45,6,10,20,10,21,8,16,4,24,14,6,5,12,9 and many more .
So you should take the lesson what quality disussion is.
Am I rude???
Yes, I am rude to make it straight to you.
Was anything wrong which I wrote to him??
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47 responses
@rainbow (6761)
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25 Mar 07
Well, I would have told him if he had nothing nice to say to please stay away from my discussions, maybe without all that detail as I cannot be bothered with such people.
I don't think you exactly wrote anything wrong and I'm sure if this person comes back to your discussion and reads it, there is definately no misunderstanding your intent.
Gosh, I hope I never manage to upset you in this way!
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@oarnamav (2708)
• India
25 Mar 07
I think every one will take both of you in a childish type of discussing some thing like this.
We all mylottians are supposed to read and care only the sincere & serious member users in mylot and ignore some times if somebody looses the control of gentleman code of behavior.
i wish atleast you would change yourself towards the discipline and discussion guidelines in a manner the mylot expects you to. Y ou only have to communicate/contact the mylot people whenever you face such kind of reactions from somebody in your discussions and that you should discuss them publicly through discussions. This too is violation of discussion guidelines.
I wish & hope you will focus on to the real intentions of mylot website and would enjoy and try to get some pleasure from mylot platform provided to we all.
All the best from oarnamav.
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@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
25 Mar 07
I don't think there was anything wrong with your the statment that you gave to this person. You were defending yourself against someone that was being rude. Though it may be wise to be careful on retorting back to someone, cause don't want to see any of my friends getting into arguements which may result in them getting banned. Take care and hope you have no further problems with this person.
@yudishtira (136)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 07
Whoa...! You really make him down, lol :D
By the way, you're right in your position. It's ok to tell him about everything you got in this myLot. But, c'mon, this guys was new boy in myLot, like me too. He just start to learning in this myLot community.
Happy posting in myLot... :)
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
25 Mar 07
hahaha you nailed him in the head Good for you! It happened to me once but I was responding to a joke. That day I was really tired at work and I was not looking to respond to heavy weight discussions. So I found this joke somebody made and I thought why not respond to it, since I only responded to joke topics about 5 times or so until now. I responded with another joke, like other responders did. Then all of the sudden, the next responder was saying that this was not quality (either the response or the topic) I thought who cares, I wouldn't want to speech when someone was joking, that's stupid ! besides there is a joke section in mylot, why mylot allows it there if it's not of quality?
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@scorpiostar (971)
• Lithuania
25 Mar 07
do it was necessary to get angry? since I started a discussions here I always wonder, how people ar sensitive to comments of their posts...
U wrote everything frankly as feedback to his insultings.
That guy just provoked yourself to discussion about wrong sides of yours:) maybe it was such purpose to make anger to yourself?
Don't think about it more. Refuse bad minds from youur head.
Enjoy good sides of myLot.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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26 Mar 07
i think you did exactly the right thing. There is really only mylot who decides what are and what are not quality discussions. Non of us really know, but im pretty sure its not just down to the number of responses you get. If that was the case, the lame pepsi/coke type discussions would be the highest quality here
blessed be
@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
• Pakistan
26 Mar 07
He was new and I think you should have told him in straight words to keep out of those discussions which are meant for your friends. Also, you should have told him to stop bugging you. Anyways calm down and relax take glass of water and you're up again.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
25 Mar 07
Who cares! Everyone has different reasons for posting the way they do. I post discussions because I like to know about other people, what they do, their experiences, how they feel and such, No one has the right to tell you you dont have quality discussions, unless they break the mylot rules, they shouldnt say anything, if he doesnt like your discussions, then he just shouldnt read them. I'd ignore him...it isnt worth getting all worked up over.
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@NatureBoy (493)
• Singapore
26 Mar 07
Eh, I don't think I could comment on that, but hey, let's not let just 1 person spoil the whole community. Cheers and keep posting samrat.
@Healthkeep (996)
• Israel
2 Apr 07
I think you shouldn't have errupted like that... It was kind of rude. There is no need to get upset by someone, who wishes only to state his or her opinion. It is why we are all here, after all, right? A discussion should be with more patience.
I know you, and I like your discussions - you have posted many discussions, some are good and some are better. You are also a hotshot here on myLot, and I think you should teach the newbies to be patient, and not e-shout at them...
I mean no offence to you, and I hope you take critics the right way - "I think you are great, but would you think of... (what I think is a flaw in your char.)". That way, you can't get mad at someone who likes everything in you, but one char., right? It means all he wishes is to help you, right?
@atramesil (685)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Everyone is intitled to an opinion. I actually posted a discussion about all the questions. Seems a lot of people are just asking yes or no quwestions without any real content in them. I suppose they are entitled to use Mylot as a way to collect trivial information. I know it is not what I am particularly interested in. I am excited to know that there are people from different countries and cultures participating in Mylot. It is like a world wide conference. I would hope that maybe we can work together to better understand each other (not necessarily all agree with each other, just understand).
Direct attacks on any individuals postings:however, seems to me would violate the generaly spirit of what Mylot is trying to do.
@sonukuldeep (669)
• India
2 Apr 07
i dont know what i should say i hope u understand me. in ur own way u are right. u have a lot of experience there is no doubt about it. in fact u are one of my first friends in mylot i hope u dont misunderstand me. according to me i think u were angry at that moment this is why u wrote such a letter. if some thing like this happens to me i would have made it sure that i take the revenge as well as not make my opponent angry. i never think scolding a person is the solution.in this way u never make him understand his fault rather u make him angry. if i were u i would have made him ashamed by sweet conversation. in this way he would have been embarissed and would never have mesed with me either.
@rajikoshy (741)
• India
26 Mar 07
what is right for me is wrong for you.
what is wrong you is right for me.
thats the world today
every one has their own way to think.
earlier all thats right was right
and all that was wrong was wrong.
but today all right can be wrong
and all wrong can be right.............How can i say you are right or wrong ?......lol
@jjwatson28 (572)
• United States
26 Mar 07
dont you hate people like that. Who cares what he thinks . I think you do great.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
26 Mar 07
well, i can see you are quite right on tell him these words. there are do some guys in mylot that lingering on without doing good things or giving good response. i think the reason he insults you is because of envy, cause he himself cannot post high quality discussions and also cannnot get many responses. anyway, things will turn to be bad for him. just do what you should do and never mind about that. you are a person who can judge things.
@mavrone_yefriend (117)
• India
26 Mar 07
Hello dear, well the time when you replied to this stuff you were just not in your senses dear. On this one I would ask you ,was there any further reply to this respond of yours from that person?
Everyone here is free to express his/her views, the things which I like, quite possible that you may not like them. So first you should think twice on the post ask him what and where did he feel, you going wrong??
Have patience and do your work calmly, learn from all never underestimate anyone's ability.
Once even you had 21 posts and 5 discussions started but you are doing well today ,so might he do tomorrow.
So you were too harsh and you could have handled this situation differently.
