in handling relationship what is the most important?
By karen_24
@karen_24 (320)
Philippines
7 responses
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
in a relationship, there are factors to be considered and i think they are all equally important: love, trust, respect, understanding, committment, and making God the center of the relationship.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
26 Mar 07
in my view the most important thing is the care for your partner. care for his/her views, comfort, rest, emotions and every thing and continuous reassurance to him/her about how much you love your partner. i think majority of the issues could be settled itself by little gestures of love and care.
@adawnanaaron (291)
• United States
26 Mar 07
In a relationship i think it is most important to have an OPEN LINE OF COMUNICATION!! with out comunication you have nothing. my husband and i love each other very much and us comunicating is one of our ways of showing it like hi hunny how was ur day cause it shows them you care about what is going on and it helps you both through any disagrements you may have so long as you openly comunicate about your feelings
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
There are a lot of factors that would make the relationship worked out, but for me the most important would be understanding and communication. That's what I kept on reminding my boyfriend, when there is understanding trust will surely follow but you also go into a relationship because of the love you both shared. Being honest and open are also considered because without those, the relationship might turned out into a lie.. We do hope that when we are in a relationship, we have all these but we are not perfect to be able to have all those, there will always be times when we wanna get even..
@shwetashetty1481 (124)
• India
26 Mar 07
i think TRUST is the most imp thing that holds the relationship...love,understanding,adjustment,committment..rest just follows....imagine if ur patner doesnt believe in u,doent trust u,can u think of surviving in such a relation..atleast i cant
@cruelconsuelo (8)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
NOT A SINGLE LIE.
Why would you lie to someone you love? Lying is a destructive and painful act for you and your partner. It gives birth to a vicious and often uncontrollable cycle that can be really ugly.
I may sound unforgiving on this subject but I'm one who likes learning my lessons the hard way. Trust me girl, a little white lie might cause you the world. Remember the tale of the boy who cried wolf?
You wouldn't want to be in his shoes, trapped and hopeless in front of the big, bad wolf. And what's more scary in a lying lover's case is that the big, bad wolf he is facing is himself.
So go ahead and speak the truth and nothing but the truth at all times.
@paulific (189)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i cannot say this is the most important, but is one thing, that two persons in a relationship should really consider: knowing each other or the drive to know your partner and opening up for your partner to know you.
Most of the time, relationships overlook the need of knowing each other at least for the purpose of looking for venues of how to nurture and care for the lover or the intimate relationship you have with each other.
most of the time, people tend to be consumed by the romance, the elation, and the happiness of love or so they say.
most of the time, this becomes a problem in the end.. for assumptions of having known your partner or for assumptions your partner knew you already or for both's assumptions - you become frustated for not being understood by your partner.