Ask Zuri: Looking for free relationship or love advice? I can help!

United States
March 25, 2007 10:24pm CST
My name is Zuri, and I'm a relationship expert who writes a bi-monthly advice column. Please send me your questions and I'll do my best to give you my $0.03 on your situation!
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@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
wow got you at last=) now i know why you gave good comments or the best i should say. i love to hear an advice from an expert*as in dying to hear=)* if you would also like too=) anyways, we have this girl-talk ones & this is one of the topics that ring a bell to my ear some women say that it is okay with them if their man will watch p**n videos or movies ---*sorry the word is not allowed yet & i dont know how to change my preferences =) i just hope u get what i mean, im so sleepy too* i dont know if im just kinda conservative, for the way i was brought up or im on denial of what really is real. but i really didnt agree witht them isnt it disrespectful or something?esp when they say their man have a lot of videos about it, and some watches it on internet. I personaly ask this question because my husband used to do that, but when i asked told him to get rid of it, he also did try to get rid of it But i myself is worried if im just being so unreal or inconsiderate for my husband is also a man and as graduate in medical field, i know he has the same hormones as any other man=) * by the way hope you understand that my husband is my first and my last, so i cant compare much men's behavior about this and also the way i was brought up=)* another question, if i allow him to do that, is there any possibilities that it would affect our relationship?anyways we are a happy couple, its just that this makes me consider once in awhile. Yes, my husband says those things its just nothing to him, so if ill say better if he'll get rid of it, then he'll get rid of it. but with an additional & undying words from him"remember, im a man" its just for curiosity though"then i would sometimes answer him back: curiosity? with our age*26 y.o* anyws i just want to hear some views from you zuri as a relationship expert i just want to know what is right thanks and more power. sorry if i made some errors above, im so sleepy but i just cant get out of this internet hehe=) --jnet-;
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
where will i change prefernces so that i would be able to see some materials with mature content.. well, i try to learn it soon though, im just so sleepy to do it now but if anyone wanted to share. thanks =)
• United States
28 Mar 07
P.S. to view mature content, you need to go into your profile section on mylot and check the box that allows you to view posts with mature content. Thanks for posting your question! And, let me know if I can be of help again in the future. You can always leave me a note on my blog at http://askzuri.blogspot.com Blessings! Zuri
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
thanks very much zuri =) that is so very kind of you giving epert advices *almost for free .3c? hehe* my husband gave some of those above explanations you said to me i thought its just his excuse hehe it doesnt really affect us i think im just kinda old fashioned ... sigh more power to you