i am cooking for the entire month because i am leaving ...is that good or bad?

@Seawaves (106)
United States
March 26, 2007 11:01am CST
hey ladies, i am flying home to visit my familly after 2 days i might stay for 2 or 3 months as i did't see 'em for 3 years,my mum is dying to see my gaughter as she is the only granddaughter in the familly. My husband is feeling terrible specially he has to come back early to cook for himself. so i am cooking for a month and will divid it in ziplock containers and store it in the freezer. woooow, that's really not esay i feel like it takes forever to do that although, i am trying to cook easy stuff. and to be honest i am thinking what situtaion i did put myself into? i need you support guys....
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• United States
26 Mar 07
yeah you can cook and sore in freezer.nothing bad in that.Teach to your husband how to basic cooking if he is intrested in,so that he wont face any problem for the rest of the time.Anyway you can't arrage food for whole three months.I guess you are an indian ,so some of the indain cooking more easy to cook and less time to spend.
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@loved1 (5328)
• United States
26 Mar 07
It sounds to me like you are in a tough postition. It is hard to take care of your husband and an ill parent at the same time. I have been in your shoes and can sympathize. It is a great idea to prepare meals ahead of time and store them in the freezer for your husband. What more can you do? Don't feel too bad about it. You are only one person and can't be in more that one place at a time.
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@GardenGerty (160708)
• United States
27 Mar 07
You can do it, and he will appreciate the extra love you leave for him in the freezer. I often fix two weeks worth of food at a time, and pack our lunches, and freeze some. You might find you enjoy the time it saves. Of course it is hard now, as you are anxious to leave.
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
You are going to cook for a month and will put them in the freezer? Wow! It's my first time to read such statement. Well, I cannot guarantee you that it is good because you are going to store the food in the freezer for a month. Why not get an opinion from an expert? So that you will know if it's really good or not. I'm just concern for your husband's health...
@Seawaves (106)
• United States
27 Mar 07
thanks goorgeousdreamer, our type of food is really easy to prepare and ready to be cooked when needet.my only problem is the time i am spending
@greengal (4286)
• United States
27 Mar 07
Hey seawaves, I'm gonna be in the same situation in a few weeks time when I'm gonna fly overseas to visit my parents and the rest of the family. I'm worried about hubby dear too, how he will manage with the food..lol I too plan to make food in advance and freeze it so he can use it whenever. I think its a good thing to do than let these men eat out everyday. That way we too won't feel guilty about not being here to take care of them. After all eating good meals is important. And don't worry, I'm sure your hubby will manage. Have a safe and fun trip!:)
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@prestocaro (1251)
• United States
26 Mar 07
You can do it!!! I know lots of moms who cook once every two weeks. They store casseroles, soups, and marinated meats in their freezers. All you need to supply that night is some veggies and maybe bread and you're ready to go! Jus be sure to make a map of your freezer or clearly mark everything with directions and labels. Plus, you know your hubby will be eating well (instead of just grabbing fast food every night). A friend of mine lays all her soups and meats flat on a cookie sheet in the freezer (inside the ziploc, of course) so then when they are hard you can just file them or stack them up. It takes up less space than the containers.
• United States
26 Mar 07
I started a thread a few weeks ago about make-ahead food, if you need some ideas. I brainstorming is the hardest part!
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• India
27 Mar 07
well I find it really tough situation....although I believe you would be freezing them all or something....but then too I believe that the taste isn't gonna remain the same...or is it gonna? My god...I am just shifting to states next three months.... and you have scared the hell outa me that many a tmes the food I would be eating would actually be one month old?
@Seawaves (106)
• United States
27 Mar 07
well, that depends on what you cook and how you cook it
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
Hello seawaves. I can see that you are looking forward to this vacation very much. The excitement is written in between all the lines you have written here. I can see that you are bringing your daughter along. You are very busy cooking because you want to make sure that at least your husband will be comfortable while you are away. This way, you will not worry so much about his condition while you will be enjoying some months with your original family. All I can say is may you spend those vacation days happily with the people who matter so much to you. Good luck and happy trip. Don't worry so much about your husband he will pull through. I am very sure though that he will miss you and the kid. When you come home from the vacation, it will be your time to spend a wonderful time with your husband for a day or two. By then you must have missed each other so much already.
@Seawaves (106)
• United States
27 Mar 07
thanks trinidadvelasco,that is wonderfull support and yes, i am really very excited to see my familly and spend really nice time with'em. my only concern is that my husband spend really long time in his work and use to return late but because he knows that food is ready. you know,i feel really i am over reacting.
@soccermom (3198)
• United States
27 Mar 07
I think what you are doing for your hubby is commendable. I'm sure it will be an adjustment for him having you and your daughter gone for so long, so when you get frustrated with all this cooking and freezing, just think of how it will be appresiated by him and I'm sure every night when he reheats your meals he will miss you a little less because he knows you love him. I don't know if I would be able to do it. But luckily my hubby knows how to cook, although I doubt he'd do it just for himself! Have a safe and happy trip!
@Seawaves (106)
• United States
27 Mar 07
thanks soccermom
@digit1 (3)
• India
27 Mar 07
I dont know cooking but i will lean but i enjoy eating cooked food
• Pakistan
27 Mar 07
yes you are doing fine there is no problem in it if you are cocking for a month because you are leaving i think its not bad
@Seawaves (106)
• United States
27 Mar 07
thanks for you support
• China
27 Mar 07
i think it should be bad! just i think