What you think spoils the love of a couple?

I think there ar probably quite a few factors. Not making an effort to impress your partner anymore, annoying habits in front of your partner, children can cause many problems, selfishness and one of the main things is trying to control a person in my opinion.

obviously wrong habits.. if trust him/her and you are perfect and honest then there will not be problem of your love breaking.... love is true till there exist trust..... if your trust break then also your love will break... except trust there is nothing which can break your love.......

Not a single cause or factor but a combination of several factors spoil the relationship between two lovers. Lovers may be married couples also. The first and foremost cause which, I think, is the lost of the tuning between the two. If its explained all other causes will que behind it. Sometime any of the two, be it the man or the woman, refuses to grow up or be matured enough, seeks help and dependance on their parents for every other matter. It irritates the other side because of incessant interference of the parents in their personal life. Next is infidelity. Man has the nature of possessiveness and they consider the women to be their chattels. Women also do not want to share their men with other women. Men are polygamous by nature and on every available opportunity they'll cheat their women, whom they shower with ''I love you sweetheart'' kind of dialogues all the times. Financial stringencies and problem is nothing in comaparison to the real love and attachment between two loving hearts. So once the breaking of a relation starts its process all other matters become a factor to it.

I think that laziness is what spoils most relationships . Doesn't matter what person you are having a relationship with if you don't work at the relationship then eventually you will lose the parts you like best.All you really need is good communication to maintain a healthy relationship.