how easy can you forgive?

@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
March 26, 2007 9:02pm CST
is it easy for you to forgive someone who hurt you so much, like a friend who betrayed you, a brother who lied to you or a confidante who tell your secrets to other people.. how can you easily forgive them?
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4 responses
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
i can forgive easily, its my talent..im not the type of person who keeps bad feeling to myself.
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@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
as i know myself, im sure i can forgive easily coz by doing that im able to release guilt feelings too.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 07
It's really not that easy to forget someone who has been w/ u for a long time and u have trusted dearly for some matter. Sometime s we tend to trust more on people we dont dont because they havent hurt us yet. When we find ourselves in s a situation where we feel we were betrayed by someone, cheated by a loved one and left hanging on a certain situation, we feel as if we're alone and that we felt worthless. That is not always the case. Sometimes we do have to realize the value of a realtionship to both parties. We tend to submit ourselves to something we truly believe in but some people doesnt take relationship or a certain bonding that seriously. WE just have to be careful with our own feeling and try to justify things the way we wouldnt be hurt deeply. WE also have to consider the laws of individuality where it says that everyone is unique in his own characteristic and way of thinking. Like reading a book, leave a chapter when ur done. If u can't get over it yet... give urself some time and space to think.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
nice opinion! thank you mantra. happy posting.
@jamie622 (508)
• India
27 Mar 07
I have a very good quality to forgive people if its a personal thing and if the only one they have tried to harm is me . I figure out that forgiving the person is more fulfilling than planning to take revenge . Plus forgiving someone can give you a kind of happiness that nothging else can . BUt whne it comes to profesional mistakes I take care that my employees have learnt a leson thay they need to learn and so that they do not repeat their mistakes . So it really matters to me if the its a personal hurt or a profesional mistake .