how does it feel to marry your first boyfriend or your first everything !!!

I've been with my fiance for the past three years. We're getting married next year. He was my first everything as well. I have dual emotions about it. On the one hand, I'm grateful that I never had to bother with the BS of "the dating scene". Bars and clubs and sexism and worthless males. But at the same time, I feel cheated. I've never once in my life been hit on, picked up, asked out, complimented by a stranger, nor been on a date, or anything like that. I've never really felt wanted or attractive. It's very confusing.

it is truly a blessing to be able to find your husband with out going through the trials and tribulations of dating... though dating is not all that bad it gives you a different all around perspective of how different men act and interact with women... some women are one sided because all they know is that one man... but it gets deeper than that sometimes... and then on the other hand dealing with different men can make you famished... resentful and tired...

i am married now and this husband of mine is my first. so far i don't have regrets and very much happy. It doesnt mean we dont encounter problems, we do, all couples do. we ourselves as couple has no assurance what is ahead of us. But what important is we are trying & willing to communicate for the betterment of our relationship & stay true for the reason why we are together: love. For we know love is not just word nor just a feeling but it comes with actions too. It really doesnt matter if your husband is your first, second, third or last botyfriend amongst your 21 boyfriends hehe. what matters is the reason why you get married, because if true love is the sole reason. surely both of you will go a long way.... good luck! stay happy and in love p.s true love for me isnt one-way.. it should be two people tuely loving each other. i might post our picture but not now my husband dont know yet that im just signed up for mylot just this afternoon =)