Which is Easier, Letting Go or Moving On?

for me you can't choose between LETTING GO and MOVING ON. When a boyfriends break-ups you before you LET GO, you should first start to MOVE ON, get on life without the person. MOVING ON is easy to the ear compared to LETTING GO, It's a process, LETTING GO isn't eay so you have to MOVE ON FIRST.

I agree with some of the previous responses, you have to let go before you are able to move on. I do think that if you move on before you completely let go, it makes it a little easier. Unfortunately I did a lot of moving on before letting go. I would be in a relationship and in my heart I knew the relationship was pretty much over, but I didn't let go until I moved on. I didn't end my relationships until I knew there was someone else to take his place. I know that sounds horrible and I'm pretty sure it had something to do with my insecurities, but I'm proud to say its not like that anymore. I recently broke up with my man and there is no one waiting for me in the wing. I'm going to build up my self confidence and learn how to be on my own without a man. I've let go of the man I thought I loved and needed and I'm going to move on by myself and to no one else for awhile.

In my opnion it is not easy to do either. It depends on the situation. If it haas to do with dealing with a boyfriend/girlfriend then once you are over the initial shock of it happening you will be able to get over it and also move on. Again it depends on the situation.

I guess letting go... sometimes when we're too hurt we find it easy to let go... since during that time anger and pain is in our heart... but the moment we realize the fact that he/she is no longer us... moving on is harder...the memories... the thought that we loose them forever...almost tear us apart. sometimes we ought to ask ourselves if we made the right decision... easier said than done.

Actually it depends on the situation. Letting go of what and moving on to what? If you are referring to your relationship that is turning sour, then let go of him or her. Maybe that person is happy if your will let him go. But it doesn't mean loosing him will be the end of your line. You've got to move on to find your equal happines or your new life. Who knows your happiness or your success is in in this next chapter, isn't it

Moving on and letting go- to me you can't do one without the other. If I would have to pick I would guess that letting go is the hardest thing to do because it's the first step that you have to take in order to be able to move on. You have to truly let go of someone or some situation that you are involved in before you can move on to the next step in your life. Take me for example I was in a long term relationship and it took me a long time to be able to let go of that relationshp once it was over. But I would still say that I am not to the place where I have moved on. I haven't started dating again because i'm not read to open myself up to that pain and potential heartbreak again. But letting go and accepting that it was over was definently the hardest part.

arent they both one in the same. you cant move on til you let go.. either way, its the best thing to do to rid yourself of bad situations. the only thing to do as a matter of fact.

hmm, I don't actually know what is easier, nut I think that it is very important to learn how to let go! because if you see that there is no other way you can be with the person anymore it is better to let him go, before it is too late. and too late it is when you spent too much time on him and in the end anyway deside to let him go.