have excuses to give for everything?
By monsmunni
@monsmunni (34)
India
March 27, 2007 11:15am CST
how many of you blamed circumstances and make excuses fot not being successdul?
if your individual answer is that you do blame circumstances and make excuses, do you realise the fact that you can create tons of excuses for not being successful but nothing will change?
there are many instances wherein i really blamed somthing else or someone else just passing the buck on others. but as time passed on i am more matured that i understood the facts.
Blaming and making excuses will destroy your energy and vitality and leave you with a feeling of frustations and desperation. your life will not change untill you take 100% respobsibility of your life. you must give up all excuss and stop any blames. stop blaming your parents, education, friends, spouse, coworkers, boss, weather, counrty, government,... etc.
if you continue blaming and making excuses then congratulations...... you will fail!!!
"99% of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses"- George Washingtion Carver.
Engrave the above quote in your mind. you only fail when you surrender and loose persistence. and you will surrender by starting to blame and make excuses.
but if you take 100% responsibility of you life you will try again and again untill you achieve what you want. because only you can get the right results and you will waste your time by blaming circumnstances.
if you are not convinced, then before i prove it to you lets agree on this:
"at least act as if you are 100% responsible"
if you dont believe that you are 100% responsible of your life and that everything happens to you results from your decisions and actions, then at least act as if you are.
this will decrease your level of blaming, increase your chances of success and provide you with confidence in yourself and abilities.
just check on this formula: E+R=O
Event + Response = Outcome
Your outcome only depends on your response to certain event.
you have no control over events or circumstances. you only have control over yourself and your responses.
you can make a difference!!
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