Do you have a step mom or a step dad?

I actually have both. Both parents remarried pretty late in my life. I think I was about sixteen when my dad remarried and I was living across the country, so it didn't really affect me. My mom just got remarried a few years ago and I'm already an adult and living on my own. Both didn't affect me in any way. My parents did a good thing getting divorced in the first place because things were so terrible in our house.

I was five years old when my mom and dad seperated. It was the best thing for everyone involved! Both my parents remarried and at first I had much hatred towards my step-mom..but I had legit reasons to be upset with her. But now I love her very much and she has turned out to be a very sweet loving woman. She is a wonderful grandmother to my children. My step-dad has be absolutely wonderful from day one. I love this man so dearly! He has shown me how a real man should treat a woman with kindness, love and respect. He is such an awesome man and I am so very proud that he is my dad, I could not have picked a better man for my mother to put in our lives. Thanks for the discussion and have a great day/night.

I got used to it. My mum has been married about 7 times since I was born. She got divorced from my dad when I was just 6 months old and was in and out of relationships and marriages till I was about 11. Then she met my current stepdad and had a child. They have been together ever since. But my stepdad is wicked! I couldn't have asked for a better person. He is so in tune with everything children need and want. He can talk to people my age (18) without feeling old or out of place because he is such a big kid at heart. My dad on the other hand has been with the same woman since I was about 2 months old (yes he was cheating on my mum) and I do not like her at all. She tries so hard to make me call her mum and she just isn't. I suppose I couldn't ask for 2 great step parents?!! he he he

My parents had been divorced for quite a while when my mother remarried. I was older and hadn't lived at home for quite a while so it really didn't affect me that much. As long as she is happy that is all that matters.