its ok for you if your LOVER has many FLINGS ???

No, definitely not. After one fling the trust has been broken. Some couples may be prepared to work on regaining that trust, but in my book, one fling is one too many, and the relationship should be over!

It's really not acceptable. I don't even want to see my love anymore if that happens. Before commiting in a relationship, you should know your responsibilities first. And you ought to respect your partner in the manner that you provide him or her the love she or he deserves. To love is never easy. It's such a very serious thing. Temptations are all around but it's up to you if you would want to be bitten or not. Temptations will really bite you if you hit them. Make it sure you're single when doing it. It's a big betrayal to engage in those stuffs. Why did you enter a relationship if you'll just flirt with others in the first place?

Flings while dating another person is wrong, there is no way around that. That is cheating. It's never ok to cheat on your partner, therefore having flings while dating someone is never ok.

Of course not! Sorry but I don't share my guy.

No definitely not. It would have to happen only once and the trust is broken. If couples were prepared to work really hard, the guilty partner may earn back some trust, but not in my book.One fling would, is one too many!

a big NO!!!!HELO??R U OK?I JUST WANT HIM TO BE MINE!!AND NO ONE CAN borrow hm from me...how selfish i`am but i dont care!!!his not a toy nwe dat can be borrowed anytym...

i dont want to sound so naive, but what does fling really means? is it the same as cheating?