What's the best thing when you've finally moved on from a failed relationship?
@myworld_and_you (1223)
Philippines
March 28, 2007 12:07am CST
I got a call from one of my pals who currently is undergoing the stage of having finally moved on from a failed relationship. We talked for about 2 hours over the phone and I'm so happy to know that she has no grudges with her ex anymore. And the most beautiful words she had spoken was, "At last! I've proven my worth and now, I'm back to my old self- happy and contented."
I was strucked by these words because I have been a witness on her struggles during those times when her boy left her. She always pity herself. She almost lost her self esteem. I was with her from the start to give her out some advices that she really has to move on and love herself once again.
It's not that easy though to rebuild yourself back. It takes time to really do that.
How about you? What was the best thing that ever happened to to you when you've finally moved on from a failed relationship? :)
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@burniegheb (67)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
the best thing that had happened to me when i moved on in my failed relationship was, I had realize that that person is not worth-it. she nearly ruin my future...my goals in my life...my family. Im realy bless that she already out of my life because she was not a good person for me.
@xenybb (168)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
I have also been experiencing that feeling like your friend. I am also been through w/ the heartache i felt w/ my ex boyfriend who had a third party. I never thought that what I feel now is true. But it's true i forget him and don't have a feeling for him. I forgot all those heartache and that i had forgiven him.
I am happy so far now w/ my new boyfriend...thanks to god..
@catcai (1056)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
I'm happy for you and your friend.
Personally, I haven't moved on yet, but I wish when I do i'll a have a chance at that satisfaction as well.
I know exactly what your friend feels as that is what i'm currently experiencing now. It really is not easy to move on more so to forgive the person who tore you apart.
I hope I too will be able to move on as soon as I possibly can. Right now i'm still bitter and angry from all the things that happened to me. I'm still struggling to accept the fact that there is no more i can further do about what has happened to me. I really do wish I could move on from all of this..
@archerthegreat (69)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
It was when we ended up being bestfriends with my ex girlfriend and there was no uncomfortable feelings after a few months. Although there were times when we felt like going back but when we became bestfriends it seems that everything was more than enough for us already. We treated each other so naturally and we didn't have a need to pretend from each other anymore. It was more than a blessing to know someone that way, more than I could ever imagine.
@day_lunz (75)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
Truthfully, I'm still on that plane..moving on. So I might not really know what's the best thing that could happen..But I'd choose to get someone who could love me better than the previous one. I pray for that someone...fast! hehe. For self-presevation's sake..what I'm going thru is another write-up altogether and with much drama..hehe..cheers to those who have moved on!! I salute you!
