expectations from women...y not from men

India
March 28, 2007 4:19am CST
y does it always happen that we expect women to adjust and understand,y not men do the same??????
6 responses
• India
2 Apr 07
It is a fault of our society. It has been going on for 1000 of years in our society. But the time has changed now. many people don't think that only women have to adjust. I am not in the favour of the male dominant society. I believe in equality.
• India
28 Mar 07
It is because of our social structure, mind set of the people and acceptability by women. The day when women will start not to compromise on each and every matter, the society will start changing. Untill it will continue. Women have to take strong steps on this set up. In present scenario man and woman both are at equal level so this is high time for a change. The society should not much expect from women only. To run the family well it is responsibility of both to adjust jointly on the matter where there is difference of opinion. A step ahead from both man and woman is essential to resolve this conflict.
@asadikbal (148)
28 Mar 07
Well I dont know but some men do think that they are superior than women I think this might be the possibility
@eshaan (6188)
• India
28 Mar 07
Yes Dear, I also have the same question in mind. Actually adjustment is the another name of women.
• China
28 Mar 07
Before getting married, men will probably do some adjustments; while it is true that after the wedding, women is always the part to adjust and understand. But i still wish I can find a guy who would do the adjustment.
• India
28 Mar 07
Good question to raise. But dont women have their own expectations like her man needs to be this and that, earn enough for both, give all the appropriate presents on time, be a good talker and know what goes on in their hearts and minds (without being given a single hint !!!) One view is that women have bombastic expectations, which aren't fulfilled most of the times. And hence the expectation are for a woman to trim down her expectation. But, when I see the post marriage world, I really feel there is need for men to be adjusting a bit. Making a small begining in your own house is the way to go. As I always see women waiting for something to happen. Also, didnt your mother and mother-in-law, ask the same questions? What did they do to improve your lot???