how can i cop with it? help me!
By peisiyi
@peisiyi (123)
China
March 28, 2007 10:20am CST
Today,my female student unexpectedly told me a secret that she falls in love with our maths teacher,but the issue is that she don't know how to express her thought to him, falling in the confusion.On the secret,i stood in amazment.you know, i was so surprised that how a student will love a person with three times of her age.what's more,the one is just her teacher.personallly,i am sure to object the thing accurred.but judging from my friend's conversation between us,i felt that she will never give up this love except he completely refuse her affection.we often heared that love between each other is irrelevant to the age,status,background,
even gender,however,facing the case of loving her teacher,whether she should give up the crazy behaver,or continue to chase him and express her pure love?And,as her best friend ,how can i deal with it?i am sincerely expecting your advices and remark.
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@SageMother (2277)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I don't see anything that you need to cope with.
I see that you are surprised but that will pass and has no ramifications in and of itself. You needn't intervene because no action has been taken on the part of the math teacher that would be considered inappropriate. The student confided in you, and you should keep this between the two of you.
There is nothing wrong with having strong feelings about others. It is what one actually DOES that makes the difference. The student is apparently inhibited enough that she cannot reveal her feelings to the object of her affection so things are safe at this time. Should she become able to do so, it will be up to the math teacher to decide how to proceed. It might be wise for you to explain to the student that you are not comfortable hearing about her feelings, and leave it at that.
@peisiyi (123)
• China
28 Mar 07
thank you for your advice.maybe you are right,i will keep this secret for her and leave it at that .but if she ask me to leak this secret to him,then how should i do it?help her?but you know ,i really didn't want to see the result whether he will accept or not ,both outcomes are not what i expect.
