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By mlotboy
@mlotboy (293)
India
March 28, 2007 10:35am CST
my girlfriend doesn't treat me well.
I love her very much though.
But, there is a girl who loves for me for the last few years.
till now she loves me.
should I go to her now and make her happy instead of running after the girl who doesn't treat me good?
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6 responses
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
2 Apr 07
That is a tough question.You love a girl who doesn't love you,while another girl loves you very much but you have no feeling for her.
If i were you,i will choose the one who loves me,cuz being loved is happy.But i am a woman,not a man.
I think you should ask youself:do you have feeling for the second girl,or what you have is only thanks?Can your feeling becomes love?If it can,you should turn to her.If you can not love her.I think you should not turn to her.Cuz it is unfair for her.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
1 Apr 07
Everyone needs loving. You are no different. If one girl doesn't love you and is only hanging on for security or goodness knows what, then perhaps it is time to move on.
@healer (1779)
• India
29 Mar 07
I strongly agree with one of our friend here who says love someone who loves you. If your present wife treats you really bad than why suffer there when somebody is there to love you care for you...etc. Anyway hope everything goes well with your life and also try to take wise decisions. Never hurt anybody
@minty3 (592)
• Nigeria
29 Mar 07
You too have not treated that lady well. Even if you don't like her at least you could have appreciated her for her kid gesture of loving you. Its not too late, please reciprocate her love. Just ignore your girlfriend for a while perhaps she will come to her senses and realise what she's being doing to you. But never reject love!
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
29 Mar 07
This is a difficult question. If your current girlfriend does not treat you well then I would certainly reconsider the relationship. it is very one sided. She treats you badly and you love her so much. This is not a good relationship. If you marry this woman she will be much worse and you will be unhappy. It is quite obvious you are not happy because you have noticed someone else that does truly have great feelings for you and would treat you well. So think about that before you make your decision. If I were in your shoes, I would not continue the relationship you have with the girl who treats you bad. I would get to know the girl who does have such great feelings for you and see where it goes.
