does ur mom sneak peak at ur personal stuffs?????????

thanx a lot for posting in at this segment , , it is very nice to get a reply from a mom , , and to kno their perspective to it , well this is wat i feeel........ ( no hard feelings ) are ur sons in the teen age's???? or are r they school goers ?? or office worker , ... it actually matters in all the three diff age groups , in school going age i guess there is not that much to hide or to be private , but as teen agers ( i am 1 ) , there are times wen one needs privacy , . most of the people , write down all that they have in mind to bring out their feelings on to a diary and some of them are supposed to be secrets , , ... as a mom there may be loads of issues revolving around wat is the child doing , wat is in his mind , , , , but children learn from their own mistakes , one cud guide them in wat ways to go ,,,,, if diaries are meant to kept in secret then let it be in secret , others must kno that it is not meant to be read............ there is something called as pchyco..... grr i forgot the name , wer the children not necessarily write down on to a diary his / her felling , he scribbles them by applying pressure on to the pen pencil and in haphazard manner .... ( that happens to come out of utmost pain in his / her heart ) ......... but wen any1 reads it he cannot control his anger , he cud do anything , until he trusts that person ........ i used to write diaries , and my mom happened to read , , i tore that all the diaries ... it was meant to be secret .,,,,, but ther was notin that cud harm any1 ........ so according to me , , , , there needs to be a limit , and some amount of privacy must be given ..