Is Liying betrayal?

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Everybody in this world lies... it could be a big or a white lie... whoever claims that he/she does not lie is a liar himself. But will yuo consider it as a form of betrayal? Most of us have best friends. We're Filipinos and we're wired to being attached to people. It's either our family or somebody we knew we could rely on. In short, we value relationships. But what if the one you trusted most has been keeping lies from you for a long time? Committing it one time may still be favorable but more than twice is enough... Is another chance still possible? In my case, I have measured true friends by them being honest and loyal, and with it, I treat them as my best friends. I don't care to what people say that your best friends are your worst enemies. Upto now, i still don't believe in it... do you? Well it's for a reason that even if my best friend had kept something from me for a long time, causing pain, doesn't mean that she meant it for us to be enemies, right? It's just that according to her, she was just afraid that i would leave her after finding out the truth, however, the awful part was that she has no intentions of telling me the truth, until she got busted out. I felt betrayed and stupid believing in all her lying... she, conversely persisted that it never was betrayal... but that is what keeps on running in my head...that she lied to me... the trust vanished and the faith to her was gone. I have thought many times to restore the friendship, but everytime i think about what she did... the pain still kills me. How could i forget about it? How can i stop thinking about it as a betrayal when it's not what my heart tells me? Does time heal all wounds? If so..when? what if our friendship can't be restored anymore?