i am gettin married on sunday...with a stranger!!!!!!!

Well it doesnt matter now , since you are getting married in a couple of days he wont be expecting any thing of confession type from you. So go to him assure that you are his life partner for the rest of the life and you will stand by him in all good and bad times irrespective of what ever had happened earlier. First of all you should forget the thing that you are not a virgin and what ever you did prior to marriage. Assure him that there wont be any problems from your side in the future. Now you are worried that how he might react its all in your hands .. love makes anything possible. Do explain him with love and caring though he gets angry it wont last long, he will be able to understand you. If you dont tell him about this one day or the other you will suffer with that guilty feeling.

If it's an arranged marriage then that means it will happen no matter what. Go ahead and tell him before so he doesn't get any surprises. I think he will be ok with it as long as you don't tell anyone else but him.

what a big lie have u posted mariya

I think that you should tell him before the marriage. If he would learn about it in the future, your marriage might fail. Besides, a marraige would more likely succeed if the two of you don't hide anything from each other. Good luck!

I guess it's best if you tell before you get married, are you happy with the decision of this arrange marriage? At least when you get married, you don't have to worry about telling him this and you're not hiding anything anymore..

Really! hehehe..Well I think its not important to tell tell him if your married or not.

It depends on your culture? Does your culture expects you to be a virgin till marriage? If thats the case, you need to tell him, if not, wow! I dont expect him to think he is marrying one, talkless of expecting you to be one. Or does the person that arranged you guys told him you are a virgin? Anyway, it all depends on the above, whether to tell him or not.