is peer pressure connected to backstabing??????

peer pressure.. backstabbing?? - like what happend to cady heron(lindsay lohan) an African girl... from the movie mean girls.. oh no... i dont want this to happen to me.. HELP! HELP! HELP!
Philippines
March 29, 2007 3:11am CST
have you ever talk about a person behind their back?or heard people talk about you w/o knowing what it is their talking about.. and its you?me.. yes i've already experienced that.. and that.. i think is the most nerve-breaking thing that my "FRIEND?" did to me.. i think these kind of thingys started when i was in highschool i think at this age.. is were all of it started because at this age these is were we experienced what we call "peer pressure" and i must admit that i am one of those who experienced that.. hehe... and i dont know what to do with these.. i dont know how to fight this habit.. (not the backstabing habit) but the peer pressure habit.. i always want things that my friends have.. and that is not good because at the very first place we are not rich to just buy everything that i want. especially nowadays that we dont have enough money.. and also because i am studying in a school that.. uhmm.. lets say that the students here are rich.. i hope someone or somebody can help me.. i'll be waiting for your replies.. tc and Godbless.:) ?,hannah
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soulgurl
@soulgurl (153)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 07
Gurlll,I totally unsderstand your situation..backstabbing has been around since ages ago..Its no suprise that you're experiencing it. you poor thing... You,me and I'd say most of us have gone through it. I know it stinks when you find out that its one of your friends. But to answer your question, no...i dont think peer pressure is connected to backstabbing.peer pressure is about being pressured to do stuff that are so called 'the IN thing' or cool and backstabbing is more like a habit that some people cant seem to get rid off. heheh i know its tough especially at your age and worst still if you are in an all-girls school..trust me on this.. hahaahah..here's how you can deal with this pressure...Be yourself. And always ask yourself, is it worth doing what your friends are doing? Does it benefit you in any way? (besides being able to hang out with the popular ones) Lastly, are you comfortable with it? And remember, you always have a choice!! I do hope you get to overcome this thingy..good luck!!