Why do women date the older guy?

I think most women find older men to be more respectful, more attentive, and a little more settled down in life. For some women, the money makes a difference-and that's unfortunate. I would rather have love than money-young or old. I wouldn't date a man more than 10 years my senior; and I don't think I could date a man more than 5 years younger than me.

This is just what i think: when a girl dates an older guy, she feels a sense of security that the older person is much mature than she is. And having someone mature is almost like saying "i've got someone i can lean on." a girl wants a man who can make her feel secure and protected, a person who she can listen to and someone whose decisions she can trust and rely on. money may be a reason for some girls, but not necessarily all the women have this reason.

Before, when i was a teenager, of course i prefer to date with the same age.. But relationships dont work that good because were too young for matured things. But now, that i'm already matured and wanted a long lasting relationship, prefer to date with older ones because they are matured enough, stable with their works and i think they are more sweet and caring..And i do dating an older guy right now, and it's really working, our relationship really going strong everyday..

older guys are more experienced, usually can provide more security, are much more mature and have things together. younger guys are just all over the place, confused and don't really know what they're doing or what they want.

Money has nothing to with it fo me maybe if you weren't so bitter towards the oppsite you get some, and wouldn't be this site complaining about it

First off it's not the age it's person in my age my husband is ten year older then me. They are more mature, better in bed, and past all their stupid guy years.

I think dating an older man provides more security for the woman. Older men are more established, and they are more ready for committments. They tend to know their minds better and they treat women witn more respect. Of course, there are always excpetions to the rule.