If you fall in well there is hope but if you fall in love there is no rope .

If I believe I am in a good relationship and still someone does this to me ,then I will try to understand whether it was only good from my side and she wasn't getting enough out of it,whether she dropped subtle hints that I overlooked.If she never gave me a warning and was cheating with no reason ,then I will psyche myself into moving on.I might get hurt ,but it won't be with me for a long time as I will know if she left me for no reason ,then I deserve better than her and life doesn't end with just one relationship.However,if I find lacunas in me that forced her to move away ,I will be more hurt in that situation.I will collect the broken pieces of my heart and try to forget her,lol.It sure won't be easy in the latter,but life goes on.

sorry friend i am not in love and i am not intrested in making girl friend ,there are so many girls are my friend but no body is my personnal friend .so your discussion is meanless for me . but every one has feeling that his partner are like this or like ,so i have also a some feeling to my life partner that how is it ???? 5"6" INCH JISKI HEIGHT HO, JEANS JISKI TIGHT HO ,CHERA JISKA BRIGHT HO, WEIGHT ME THODI SLIGHT HO,UMER MEIN ME DIFFERENCE SLIGHT HO , THODI SI QUIET HO ,SADAK PAR SAB KAHE KYA NICE HO , BHID ME LOG KAHE SIDE HO , INDIA KI PAIDAISH HO , SAAS KI SEVA JISKI KWAHISH HO ,PADOSI BAAT KAREIN TO HAATH MEIN KNIFE HO , DINNER CANDLE NIGHT HO , DONO MEIN KABHI NA FIGHT HO , PRABHU KI BHAKTI USKI LIFE HO , DOSTO MERI YEH POEM PADKAR TUM SAB KAHO, GURU TUM RIGHT HO , AGAR AISI APNI WIFE HO ,TO KYAN HASIN LIFE HO .... ........................................................... FRIEND I HOPE YOU ENJOY MY THIS POEM . BYE

Loving someone is all about trust and honesty. Without it, there's no sense in keeping the relationship. It will only end in disaster with both party hurling more harm than good. If a person betrayed or cheated me, I will walk away from the relationship without looking back. It will take time for me to heal a broken relationship but I will live. I guess I have too much pride in my head to easily forgive someone. :)

Yes, I agree with you. But once one get's his lesson then there's a chance for a rope. But when he doesn't there's no hope and neither a rope.

your topic headind is very nice..very rhythemic too.Trust is the most important factor for love and if it fades thats the end of love.Is what i believe.If if we continue to hang around with such guy/girl who has cheated it will not run long life.

Hello! I like to think I am older and wiser now. I have been in bad relationships in the past and have been very naieve in my approach to them. If someone were to cheat on me now I don't think I could give them any second chances. It would take alot for me to become involved again and to have that trust broken I think I would be more angry than hurt now. No I don't think I'd have any problems showing them my foot on the way out the door! Have a nice day!

You are asking tricky question. Nobody wants to be in unhealthy relationship, if someone is cheating, means relationship is over...

love the one loves u! its a simple funda of life well experienced by millions of ppl by now....it is easy to love the one who loves u and gain trust cos the possibility of cheating is less..! i liked ur title...falling in love is ACTUALLY FALLING...tht should define everything about love...atleast in this modern era....

hmm..this is hard..I will be extremely dissapointed because he cheated on me but I will not hesitate to dump him. Life must go on and I believe that there is someone out there that will appreciate more than he is!

Hey, this is so outbreaking question. You are forcing me to think, something that I dont want to. The thought that love of my lifeis cheating me or can cheat me, makes me go weak. If I find my partner cheating on me, I can go to the extent of killing him. I gave him all of my life, all my dreams and hopes are connected to him. Without him, I am nothing, and if he is not there with me, he will not be with anyone anymore.

If a boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, no matter what you must break up with them. Even if you think you love this person, they have betrayed you and you can't continue to love someone who doesnt love you, that is not healthy.

if the guy is cheating on me i'll immediately walk out ,as far as i'm concerned i'm lil rigis abt this and i think once cheater always a cheater speicailly realtions. earlier i was like that i will be shocked ,why the person did to me,when i didn't ,but now i've understood ,u can be only responsible for ur self only,not for the whole world. btw thnx for replying qs,u r good friend

yah its true that theres a hope if we fall in the well rather than to fall in love ith somedody..if ywe fall in love were no sure if that peron may fall in love with us..so it is true.. cheating someone is like cheating your self..if you cheat your love one.. maybe if she/he knows it..she will be hurt.. because its not reasonable to cheat you loved one..

Do you really have to break up the relationship? Can you forgive her, can she forgive you. Will you or she REPENT of the mistake? These are the questions you need to ask. Everyone messes up one way or another, lies, cheating, cruelty, backbiting, name calling and many such like. Are they not ALL hurtfull? Is one more a sin than another? Sin is sin. You can sin against God, or against your friends, even against yourself. Thank God He came down to earth to sacrifice his own blood for forgivness of ALL the sins of the world. Peace comes with loving God first then it will be alot easier to love others. Truly loving others like your wife is easy when you love God first. God is Love and if you obey Gods Word then it will automatically be incorporated into your word.

No it certainly is not an easy task you are right abotu that in regards to love. no it maybe would not be easy to break the relationship but for our own sake I think that it maybe wise too. It would hurt a lot especially when you were true to him/her and they did this to us.

Yes what you said is might be correct , i said might because what i have felt after meeting my girlfriend denies your facts. But still its a personal belife and you know........

is the person to be supposed optimistic,do not have to let the pavid psychology prevent you the opportunity which associates with the person