Man From MEXICO

United States
March 29, 2007 7:37pm CST
The man I met 6 years ago,right after a bad divorce,I fell head over hills in love with,We have 2 kids and he has been a great step dad to my 7 year old,problem is he is from mexico and without a Visa,we have applied and been turned down,I am so scared that one day he will not come home.Is any one eles in my shoes.
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@tanjila (548)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Ah that's terrible... if you guys are married though I don't see why he would be rejected. They should allow him to enter especially if you have kids.
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30 Mar 07
Why has he been turned down? You hear all these stories of people getting married etc purely as a cover so one of them can gain a visa. It sickens me that a genuine case is refused when hundreds of phoney cases are approved. I have just replied to your post about your two year old. This could be another reason for his troubles. He could be picking up on your tenseness and unease and acting out because of it. It is suggested that alot of young children's behaviour is often mirrored in their parents. Ie If mum is tense and stressed the child can become that way too. It doesn't make us bad parents. But possibly worth a think! Good luck honey and I hope you sort the situation, perhaps you could apply for a visa in mexico?
• United States
30 Mar 07
We are trying that now and we are also building a house in mexico,I love mexico it is very pretty where my husband is from,but if he gets sent back I cant go be with him til my oldest is old enough to tell the court he wants to go with me because he's dad will never let him go now,and both my husband and I agree we love each other but the kids must stay togeher,and I would never leave one of my kids behind