what would you do if....

I wouldn't give him a second chance because cheating is as bad as stealing money from me. It's the ultimate in betrayal. Also for exactly you said, I would never be able to trust them again, so a second chance couldn't really work. I'v been there. I'v learned my lesson. My ex fiance cheated, and I tried to forgive but could never trust him.

I would have to say that I would make him leave and I wouldn't give him a second chance. Once the trust is gone it would take forever to get that back if ever. Plus, I'm capable of forgiving but not forgetting. It would be in my head all the time and I would be worried all the time that he's still cheating and I'm not going to put myself, my kids or him thru that. Hit the road Jack!!

Without trust relationship don't work, so if trust is lost everything is lost. i won't give her a second chance

Well it's hard to forgive but if she is really want to ask my forgiveness and want s to be with me again then i'll forgive her but the won't be there right away.