are you the bully or the loser way back in highschool?

When we come to high school, it's like a heavy pressure from seniors, school, relatives, and all society people that in any case we need to score high atany cost. and if u don't u would be treated as a loser for few days. But the moment u realize that it is not a good that everybody is treating u like a loser, u start working and putting your maximum effort for class 12th. and when result of class 12th comes, we again become a winner.. And also a new bunch of questions take place in ur family members mind. And that is the question about ur future. i really don't understand that how people can judge about somebodies future just from result of high school..........

i havent been a bullied nor been bullied by others, perhaps simply because i lived plainly as a student coz i have to, but its good... ow ive graduated in high school for years and my classmates were all bully but never bullied me... as far as i can see to them i found it very bad to be a bully... perhas it is also for being a christian,,,, i just want to respect myself and other people so i choose none of being a bully or never been bullied by other people.