Please Introduce Yourself, I'd really like to know more about you.
By paidreader
@paidreader (5143)
United States
March 30, 2007 12:03am CST
Before Asking to be My Friend, please take a moment to introduce yourself first. Even though I will check your profile page to find out a little bit about you, it would be nice to know a little more (from you) before I approve your request. My parents always said, "Don't talk to strangers!", so let's not be strangers.:)
If you don't mind, at least tell me why you would like to be my friend. Did one of my discussions or responses help or interest you enough to make a friendship request? Do we share an interest in the same things? If we do, please tell me about some of the interests we have in common.
I look forward to making friends from around the world as a member of MyLot, but we need to stop being strangers first.:)
ps. If any of my existing friends wants to drop by and tell me why they decided to be my friend, I think it will help us improve the friendship we already have too. LOL, It's getting harder to keep track of so many friends. This might help refresh my memory too.:D
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29 responses
@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
30 Mar 07
hoghoney here and I believe that you wanted to be my friend and that was cool because you have been a very good friend to me and have helped me with some problems that I had. I am 44 and a mother of 3 and a grandmother of 1 and 1 due in July I have a boyfriend of 3 years and he has 2 girls. I love life and my family. I enjoy fishing, camping and just spending time with my family and live everyday to the fullest. how was that my friend?
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Excellent answer hoghoney. We do share quite a few common interests, don't we? Except for the grandmother part, of course, even though we are similar in age, lol. I've been married for almost 23 years (next Saturday) and have a beautiful 21 year old daughter who I'm sure will give me that honor before too many more years go by. :)
We also enjoy camping and fishing but I have to admit, as we've gotten older, we've had to pack more when we go. Hubby likes to have most of the comforts of home, so the truck gets loaded down with everything except the kitchen sink, roflol.
Thanks for stopping by to share some more. :D
ps, thanks for the shoutbox you added to my profile page comments. That's a pretty cool little gadget. :D
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
14 Apr 07
Hello naty, very nice to meet you too. Sorry I missed this one for so long. I must have missed it due to the addition of these banners. ooppss :)
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
30 Apr 07
Hi my name is Shaunita and Im from virginia.I have 3 children,two girls and a boy.I work with mentally challenged adults and I am in the process of trying to start my own group home.
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
30 Apr 07
Hello Shaunita. My baby sister was born in Virginia. I think you must be a very strong woman to do such good works. I hope you'll do well in your efforts with the group home. :)
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@gwenmari1029 (1481)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
hi, i'm mari from the laguna, philippines. as i was browsing through the discussions i might answer i chance upon your questions and it really interests me. i also learned from your profile that you're trying to do business online. we have the same interest in this field. since i stay at home most of the time, i'd like to learn more of this (if you'd like to help me :)
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@gwenmari1029 (1481)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
thank you... i'll look forward to it :) congratulations on your anniversary. enjoy your vacation. take care!
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
3 Apr 07
Hi Mari, it's very nice to have a friend from the Philippines. My father had some friends from your country too. When I was young, we would visit them and I was introduced to many of your country's delicious foods. Mmmm
I'm glad we share a common interest in making some extra money online. It's taken time to build, but with patience, I have managed to find several sites I enjoy using to make some extra money while I'm on the internet. I am always happy to help others in this venture as long as they don't mind earning from free sites. ;)
When I get back from vacation, I'll be updating my profile page and the links with more internationally friendly sites, so check back as often as you like. I'm sure I can find a few that you may like. I look forward to our future discussions, my new friend. :D
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
Hi paidreader! My name is TesS / aphroditei! We met at Hoghoney's shoutbox and I'm thankful to her because I met such a wonderful friend like you. And by the way I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for adding me to your friends. And to add more informations about me, I'm a single mother as of now, been separated for almost 4 years now and I'm 27 years old. And I'm from the Philippines. I hope, we'll become good friends here in my lot and I know I'll learn a lot from you. And I would like to hear some advices from you about sites that you have already join to earn online. When you have time please pm me. I have join a few myself but I'm still bit skeptical. I hope to hear more from you. Have a nice day my friend! (^^,)
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Thank you Paidreader! I'm looking forward to compare notes with you! Have a safe trip! (^^,)
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@Palace_Girl (416)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Hellu.. i'm a 24 years old girl from the Philippines. I'm a license librarian and a license teacher, but i don't get to practice my profession, i'm really planning to after my masteral degree. I got a job as a research assistant in an executive search firm.
I don't get to log on everyday here in mylot since the computer i'm using is my office computer. I don't have a pc at my apartment and the pc of my father back home in the province is rarely online. How sad. I really wonder if I can ever reach $10 since i've been here for 3 weeks now, yet i still don't have a dollar :(
I invited you as my friend because you welcome me here!!!
"hi palace girl, welcome to mylot" it felt good. Thanks again.
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I'm very happy to have you as a friend too Palace_Girl. :) I see we also share a love of books & let's not forget Harry Potter, lol. I really appreciated the sneak peek of the new cover and I can't wait to get my copy. :D
Sounds like you have an interesting job until you finish your masters. Do you enjoy it?
@Palace_Girl (416)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
I dunno.. lol
There are times.. well you know what I mean.
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@StrawberryKisses (2833)
• Canada
23 Apr 07
Hello paidreader I requested to be your friend because it seems everytime you reply to my msges we share the same perspective. I'd like to get to know the person behind the replies.
Hugs
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
23 Apr 07
LOL, so far, so good then. Your daughter is adorable. I hope you can keep up with her now that she's started crawling. Don't push walking too hard either. Once they start, it's even more difficult to keep up with them and their activities, lol.
@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
20 Apr 07
Barin Mehta is my name. My age is 55. I am a post graduate oflanguege and literature.I am a poet,
play-writer, script-writer, novelist, editor, dramatist, performer, critic. I am a healer using reiki healing energy, Karuna reiki energy, crystal energy. I also teach these energy by attuning the interested persons in healing
I have a wife and two young boys of 24 and 22.
I am still working and ...
I think it is ok right?
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Sounds like you've had many wonderful experiences to share with others. I look forward to browsing many of the discussions I found after taking a peek at your profile page. I too feel that I am an eternal learner and hope it's something that never ends. :)
@joey_matthews (8354)
•
18 Apr 07
Opps I didn't notice this.
Well, my names joey (as you might of guessed)
I'm 19 years old, currently into web designing and general site management. (also part time waiter)
Proud father. (as many mylotter probably know by now)
I enjoy writing, drawing, talking and making new friends. generally these sort of things. =)
~Joey
P.s It is getting harder to keep track of friends, not just on here. :/
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
18 Apr 07
LOL, I started this one when I kept getting mystery friend requests. I didn't have to look when I approved you, I had already been peeking at your profile, lol. Glad you stopped by though, people that didn't notice, get a PM after I approve them, directing them to this post. :)
Thanks for adding me to your MyLot list of friends. ;)
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
17 Apr 07
Hello, I am 44, just moved on MyLot about a month or so ago; I just replied to one of your posts about dreaming; I liked it because I have one big one at present; I am divorced, the mom of two teenagers, 17 and 15; I work and am interested in making more money as well. I hope to hear from you. I also have a Yahoo 360 page as TheSavvyBamaLady; hope to see you. Peace.
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
17 Apr 07
Very nice to see you again Savvynlady. :) So glad we could visit again. I think I begin to see your dream a little clearer now, lol. My mother was in your situation when she brought home three girls after divorcing my dad. It's not always so easy to go back home after having a place of your own, is it?
I wish I could share some instant wealth tips with you, but I basically stick to free sites that just generate some extra cash in my spare time. There is one good one that I can share with you since you're in the US, but it pays out in gift certificates. Have you heard of NetWinner? It's a pretty cool free game site that I've already received $175 in giftcards from since joining late August. You have to earn points, but it's free to play as much as you want & they do pay fairly quickly, usually within 30 days. It's not much, but since I play alot, I can usually count on them for about $25/month in Walmart cards. I have almost enough for another one this month. :D
Let me know if you'd like the link, or browse my profile to see if there is anything else you might be interested in. I'd be happy to answer any of your questions if it's something I'm familiar with. :)
@vesuvius (1677)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
Hi there paidreader! I am Adrian, aka vesuvius with a Spongebob avatar.. LOL
I am an 18 year old college student from the General Santos City, Philippines. I am turning 19 this 2nd of May, 2007.
To tell you honestly, it was your avatar that caught my attention. I really like moving avatars (I understand if you think it's too childish.. LOL)
I have also looked into your profile and I have found out that we have a lot of interests in common: make extra money, dogs, people, life, mylot.com and many more! I also like the color of your profile page.
I hope I am no longer a stranger to you now.. I hope we could be good mylot friends!!
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
27 Apr 07
Hello vesuvius! It's nice to meet you. I don't think it's childish at all. I appreciate your honesty! I think we'll be fine friends. :)
I'm glad we have some interests in common. I like your avatar too, lol. Cute show, I used to watch it with my daughter even when she was in her late teens. :)
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
17 Apr 07
I am Samuel Kurian , I am an Accountant.myLot name is elshaddai123, details u can see in my profile. Now I think I am not stranger !
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
17 Apr 07
Hello Samuel. Very nice to meet you. I look forward to having more discussions with you in future. :)
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
23 Apr 07
Hi,
I completely agree with your concept, that accepting the
friendship should be considered the correct chosing for that one you need to be your friend.
So, before i introduce my self, please let me admire you and before thanks your parents for such high and mature thinking level. and by the way, Iask for your friendshep after i go throygh your discussion, interest and respond to others.
I am Taher from Egypt, which well known around the world
I work as an engineer in petroluem copmany, my interest are reading for all life subject, sharing peple in their interrest,problems and ideas, searching at internet.
Before, in my country there is a saying that:
You knew that man ..... Yes
You talk with him ..... No
So, you don't knew him.
My best regards for you
Taher
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Hello Taher! I'm very pleased to meet you. My parents & I thank you for your kind words. :)
You are right, your country is very well known world wide. It is a country my daughter & I discussed quite often as she was growing up. I must say we really enjoyed our virtual travels to your country thru the books we read & the research we did on the internet, not to mention what we've seen on TV, lol. :D
ps. When did you enjoy Herbie for the first time? I remember watching as far back as 4th grade, lol. ;)
@kangyuxin (229)
• China
18 Apr 07
I'm 21 years old. I am from China. I wanted to be your friend. nice to meet you.~ :)
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Apr 07
Like the way you did that by the way....
My name is Jay and i am from the Caribbean island of St.Vincent. I work for the government but I also am an affiliate marketer. I saw you on a mylot search of internet marketing and since we both have similar interests I decided that I wanted you to be one of my friends.
I really like you profile how its laid out too by the way.
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
16 Apr 07
Hello & welcome to my list of friends kpfingaz! Nice to know it works too, lol. It's very nice to meet you and to know that we share some interests in common.
I look forward to getting to know you better. :)
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Hi Jennifer, I'm Lynn. You're the same age as my daughter. I'm glad we have a few interests in common and think this is a lovely way to get to know each other better. :)
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
9 Apr 07
Looks like we share more interests in common than I previously thought, lol. Glad you took the time to tell me more about yourself. :)
I have enjoyed photography since I got my first real camera in 7th grade. I was very happy when my hubby got me a camcorder for Christmas several years ago. It's been a great way to capture even more memories than the camera does.
Now that I'm on the internet, I've found several ways to experiment with my images. I think it's fascinating to change my images into different formats and work with them for different effects. Last year I was even able to make a computer video for my brother in law that covered almost 20 years of Christmases the family has shared together.
I look forward to playing with the new software I received that's supposed to let me convert that video to a DVD that can be watched on TV. I think it's just amazing what you can do with photography now. :)
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I was new here and you responded to one of my discussions about friends. That is how we got on the friends list. I don't know if we have anything in common but we pop up on each others discussions from time to time. I add everything now so it will stop asking me if I want to add it to my interests.
I think this is a good idea because I get a lot of people wanting to be friends that have never responded to a single discussion.
I think they see it when I say "I respond to my friend's discussions first" and they get $$ signs in their eyes. LOL That is silly. I don't have time for anyone's discussion who does not have time for my own. It is give and take.
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
9 Apr 07
LOL, well it does help to broaden the interest from just responding to your friends discussions (wink), but I still have to be a little more selective than adding ALL the interests. Just because I have experience with skunks & can respond to some discussions, doesn't necessarily mean I want one, you know, roflol.
Alot of friendships start off as nothing more than nodding acquaintances. You see each other enough & you start to see the common interests you share. That can move on to familiar acquaintances. The more you have in common, the more discussions you tend to share & usually builds into a much more rewarding and multi facetted friendship. But you're absolutely right, friendship is all about give & take.
After getting back from my trip & doing some catching up, I ran across something you mentioned about fighting the appraisal district. I think I could give you a few arguments to use the next time you get faced with that situation again. ;)
@zengguoxing (773)
• China
14 Apr 07
We are already friends,so i just needn't introduce myself any more.Actually,i don't know what is your favourite thing.But wold you like to tell me.I'm interested in music and foods and sports and many other things.Looking forward to your message.Thanks!
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
16 Apr 07
Hmmm, Hi zengguoxing I'd have to say my favorite thing is my family. :)
Besides spending as much time as possible with family, I also enjoy reading, listening to music, photography and several arts & crafts top my list of offline hobbies. For my online hobbies, I like to make some extra money online doing the things I usually do anyway and I'm really enjoying being a member here at MyLot. :)
@Cathzsmile (171)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
Hello, I'm Catherine but you may call me Cathy. I live here in Philippines. Actually, I am a job seeker for me to able to finish my studies. I have just read some of your responses in discussion which it makes me feel curious about internet earnings. I am just new on this site and I want to learn more things from you...
I hope you can help me c"). God Bless...
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
13 Apr 07
Hello Cathy, I'm very pleased to meet you and add you to my list of friends here at MyLot. I am always happy to help others so I would be happy to share my experiences with you. :)
You have a lovely collection of pics in your profile. I look forward to seeing if I can help answer some of your discussions. Please feel free to contact me if there is anything in particular you think I may be able to help you with.
Welcome to MyLot & my friends list! :D