jealous is a positive or negative attitude.

Some people say that jealousy is coming from the person because they feel insecure, no confidence inadequate. I think it comes from the jealous person trying to control the other person. Like, i own you, your mine, all mine! haha! Take care Cinz20.

For me being jealousy in a relationship is normal for as long as there is a basis. there is actually a postive and negative part of it. as to positive, when a man or woman becomes jealous with someone it only means that she/he cares or loves the person. however, it becomes negative when he/she becomes jealous about everything.jealousy can really destroy relationship because the subject of trust is being questioned. that is why it is important for the couple in a relationship to know the limitations to avoid arguments.