Why do a lot of people rushing to get married?
By kaien_kbo
@kaien_kbo (11)
Philippines
March 30, 2007 4:27am CST
This question has been on for a long time and still no exact answer. What do you think?
4 responses
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
I guess lot of people who rush to get married wants to secure their love for the rest of their life. Because when they are married already, there love is made in heaven and if it is made in heaven, it is believe that no one can take them apart when they really love each other because they are already married.
@kaien_kbo (11)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
How emotional. Don't get me wrong. It's just that, I don't believe in the reason that they want to secure their love by getting married. It's like putting a leash on your partner's neck. If you really love the person, why not let him/her love you in a way that you won't be pressuring each other?
@alfonseelric (894)
• Malaysia
30 Mar 07
Everyone must have their own unique reasons. Some because they want to secure their love. Some maybe because of family arrangement and the force from the family. And some because their friends are all married... hmm..
The last one.. that is one thing that keep bugging me. My friend get married to the 'Mr Not-so-right' , if u know what i mean. The reason because most of our friends are married and she felt that she was old enough. And the worst part is she kept force me to get married as soon as possible. For me, love is something special. So why don't u just let it come naturally. When it comes then it will comes. After all, the kourney of life has just begin.. enjoy the life, chase the dreams.. then later get married. Do not have to hurry. Hmm....
@dexterous21 (1180)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
Oh well! At last, you we found each other here.^^
Why do a lot of people rush to get married. There are reasons for that. A person who is already old and still would like to catch up his marriage life will certainly rush everything for the sake of marriage. That is why datng site is very common these days. If they can't make it with their own race and they would seek other culture for a bride or groom. If you come to browse any dating site, most people there specially men are old already.
Next I think is unexpected pregnancy. This is very common in our country nowadays. People rush to walk down the aisle because the girl is already pregnant and they want to secure the baby's name or save the girl from rumors.
One more I think is because they want to secure their relationship because the guy or the girl will go to other country, or neither the guy nor the girl live from other country.
These are the reasons I know so far.^^
Welcome to mylot girl! I hope you will enjoy your stay here.^^
@snuglesteen (188)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
Marriage is the blessed union of man and woman under the guidance of the holy spirit and through the power of God. This is a very serious life event that most people go through. There are a lost of reasons why people go through marriage and rushing into it. It can be due to true unconditional love for each other that they want to start things right and spend the rest of their lives together. But some people enter into marriage with all the wrong reasons like having a baby out of wedlock, forced marriages and pre-arranged marriages. These are dictated by tradition and culture which should be respected but is morally wrong. People should enter marriage because they are in love with each other and not for any other reason. And with this they should be stable financially, emotionally, mentally and physically so that it can serve as an investment for a healthier union.