How to deal with a crazy Lover who is also your best friend?
@shaliniverma83 (97)
India
March 30, 2007 4:57am CST
Hey you all!!
please tell me what will you do if your best friend tell you that he/she is crazy about you and if you don't want this type of relationship. Crazy i mean real crazy like he/she loves you like hell.....
Please post your replies
thanks,
shalu
2 responses
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
30 Mar 07
I think I would like to discuss the issue with my gf why she has become crazy for me. I would like to know the reason and if I am not too much crazy like her I would clearly tell her, instead of keeping her in dark. I think one sided affair is of no use, untill and unless both the partners are qually attracte towards each other the relationship will not have the required depth.
@shaliniverma83 (97)
• India
30 Mar 07
thanks for your response
but what if he/she is not understanding and just telling you again and again about his/her craziness. he/she is your best friend and even you don't want to break the friendship then what is to be done?
shalini,
@unithorn (193)
• United States
30 Mar 07
If the person is your best friend, you need to be honest about WHY you can't/won't be with them.
Have you thought about this thoroughly? Maybe you ARE interested in that person. If not, the only thing that you should do is be honest. If everything falls apart, at least you will know in your own soul that you did not deceive the other person.
@shaliniverma83 (97)
• India
30 Mar 07
thanks for your reponse.
i will keep this in mind...and even i love him as a best friend and there is nothing else in my mind.
thanks
shalini
