marriage and sacrifice
By arwenrey
@arwenrey (315)
Philippines
March 30, 2007 9:19am CST
Have you ever felt that you have been deceived by the promises that your husband made before you got married?
I am having trouble right now with the situation i have with my husband. Before we got married he told me that he will sacrifice anything just to be with me because he love me so much. But after we got married things happened the other way around which means i am the one who sacrifice everything, i left my hometown, my dream and my life just to be with him. He really loves me so much but it's the kind of love that is selfish, he's happy to be with me but he doesn't care of my needs. We have talked about this before but still there is no change with him and it got even worse. He's that kind of person who loves to have a good life but he's not sensitive to the needs of others, he's just so sensitive to his own needs.
I am afraid of leaving him because he might get so depressed, commit suicide or do something to me that i will regret. I am just not happy right now being with him. i missed my single life.
I hope there is somebody here who could enlighten me.
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