What Astrologic Sign and You and Your Partner?
By Writerbob
@Writerbob (572)
United States
March 30, 2007 9:56am CST
Another of my eclectic interests, I like to know what signs seem to mix well together and which do not. My first marriage was Cancer (me) married to a Capricorn. That didn't work so well. This time has been much better, 15 years worth in fact with my Aries snugglebunny.
So what signs are you and your spouse/BF/GF? How well do you get along and do you think that there is anything to astrology and compatibility?
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@chaklipakli (133)
• United States
31 Mar 07
im also a cancerian...n i get along very well with leos in general. as far as i know capris r mild people...they r neither to romantic nor harsh....so for some poeple it becomes difficult to cope up with them...cause they lack intensity. gemini is a sign that cancerians should stay away from. my dad is a gemini though...lol!
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@Writerbob (572)
• United States
31 Mar 07
Roger that, my dad is a Gemini, ouch! ("Not that there's anything wrong with that", he says in a Seinfeld-ian manner)
@seamonkey (1976)
• Ireland
31 Mar 07
We have a whole house full of geminis. I am, musband is, and our oldest child of two children is. To make things even weirder, BOTH of my parents are, so my son is a third generation gemini on both sides. Whheeeew! Pretty strange!
@Karmalina (647)
• Australia
31 Mar 07
I'm a Cancer, He's a Scorpio. We don't have too many personality clashes and things look to be going well. We Cancers are supposed to be most compatible with Pisces and Scorpio I think, but I don't believe it's always true. Especially with Pisces. They're a bit too enigmatic and flighty for me. I used to attract to Sagittarius which is one of my worst matches according to astrology. That was pretty right on. It would always be a very exciting relationship in the beginning then BOOM the conflicts of interest start. We're supposedly not very compatible with Aquarius either. Some good girlfriends of mine have been Aquarians, but I've only even liked an Aquarius enough to date once. We were together for 4 months, but he was just barely out of Capricorn and into Aquarius. Heh... I'm pretty interested in Astrology too. =)
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@fahim_hitman (149)
• Pakistan
31 Mar 07
well i am scorpio and my partner sign is cancer and i think we are perfect match for each other
@Tomcat27 (112)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
i'm virgo and my wife is capricorn. this is an interesting topic since most of the people i know rely on the stars to search for a compatible mate. but personally i don't understand how the signs or the stars influence our relationship with someone. my wife and i have been dating for 7 years before we got married and i'm proud to say the love and passion is still there. astrology is just here to guide us but the real success of a relationship depends on both partners, not on something that's light years away.
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@Writerbob (572)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I agree that we can overcome these tendencies, but most people predictably never do. A Virgo-Capricorn match is good, neither of you would trigger off the other's insecurities.
@swty82 (12)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I am a Cancer and my boyfriend is a Gemini, though we have different personalities, I am more of the quiet type and he is talkative, we both have a similar way of thinking and the same interest and that what matters the most. Also astrology wise, we are more than just our sun sign because other factors play a part as well such as our ascendant and moon sign and other planets involve that will let us know who we can mix well with or not.
@Writerbob (572)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Good point about the other factors, but that kinda complicates it for most so thats why I left that out.
@spiritwolf52 (2300)
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31 Mar 07
We are both Capricorns. Our birthdays are 3 days apart. Only a Capricorn can understand another Capricorn. We understand each other's mood swings. We get along very well. We have been married over 5 years and we've never had a fight.
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@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
30 Mar 07
My guy is an aquarius. and I am a leo. Yes, we butt heads occasionally, as we both always think we are right, and we are both very passionate individuals. I think there is some truth to it, yet it is pretty vague for the most part. He loves the water, I like land. We are both leaders, so, it takes some give and take, some compromise to make our relationship work, but it does. I dont know if those two signs are good together, but it works for us.
@Writerbob (572)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Aquarius (air) and Leo (fire) seem to work well together, I've known other couples including my brother and sister-in-law that's had this match and its been great!
@alanna_liadon (189)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I am Taurus and my husband is Sagittarius. We both fit the typical descriptions of our signs very well. Lots of places say we are the worst signs to be together, but we have worked out our differences. We have been together for eight years and we are still happy! Sometimes it is challenging - I want stability and he wants adventures, he wants to flirt with other women and I have no interest in other men, etc., but I am far too stubborn to let a man get away who I love so much and he loves always having a partner to go on adventures with and be a constant when he comes home to rest.
I've dated a Taurus and a Scorpio but with those combinations we just could not make things work.
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@songbirdnaimh (1422)
• United States
31 Mar 07
My SO is an aquarius and I'm a virgo...not so sure how they go together as I'm not too up on astrology.
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@sunup13 (420)
• Canada
31 Mar 07
I am a Scorpio and my partner is a Cancer. Astrologically we are really well suited for each other, both being water signs. The only thing is I am very planning oriented and he the "fly by the seat of my pants" type of person. I am organized and he has ADHD and is no where near organized! Other than that we have a good time!
@mannu123 (144)
• India
30 Mar 07
This has also been a corner of my interests. My hubby is a virgo( with all household qualities) and I am a Libran( with all outwardly qualities). Its not a good combination as i have read in many places and also experienced at times. There is something like astrology and it matters a lot when two people have to share their thoughts. Your bith sign can completely rule your behaviour and the way you think.
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@Writerbob (572)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I like your qualification "can" in the last sentence. I don't think we're doomed to this sort of karma, but it is something we seem to have to overcome. Virgo-Libra, eh? One of you gets bored with the other easily, and I bet that's you with him.
@manzician (4727)
• India
31 Mar 07
I was born on 19 of Oct so my sun sign is Libra and My gf is of 8th July so she is a Cancerian.
@Writerbob (572)
• United States
31 Mar 07
It's alot of head-butting between two Caps, one has to just give in or it wouldn't work
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
31 Mar 07
My husband is a scorpio...oct 27th....I am a picses,feb 29th leap year...My husband is nice but we don't really match well.I am a go getter,I enjoy people,things and going places..I also like romance,and my husband is not romantic..He also does not like going places and doing things,and i am not happy with that.I don't feel like I have a partner,I feel alone a lot,which is fine sometimes....Sometimes i really don't know what i want,and i feel like maybe I have 2 personalities, sometimes i just think im not normal.....I get moody and really don't know what i want..Sometimes I feel sorry for my husband because I feel as though i care but not really in love...I just don't think we make a good pair..I really don't know any sign that matches me...
@Writerbob (572)
• United States
31 Mar 07
That's a water-water relationship, they usually end up being like sister-brother, which isn't necessarily bad, unless you are looking for passion.
@CheSabCabMD (619)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
I am a Capricorn and my husband is an Aquarian..
I dunno much about astrology, but I think that me and my husband are a great pair.. I believe that he is my soulmate, and that we really are destined for each other.. (n_n)
@kclaret59 (587)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
well my hubby is pisces and i am a virgin.. ehehe. virgo i mean.. and we get along well since he is open minded and i am not.. ehhee..