Need Advice
By cnetboss
@cnetboss (2473)
Philippines
March 30, 2007 4:10pm CST
I have a girlfriend and We are planning to get married but my family are not in favor of her and they don't like her. The other problem is that my GF is now 2 months pregnant with my child and my other dilemma is that my mother is having a depression and any REALLY major problem might not be good to her. WHAT SHALL I DO? I don't want to leave my responsibility as a father yet I don't wanna lose my mother
3 responses
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
What I know is your now 29,matured enough to choose and decide with your own who do you want to marry.Now your gf is two months pregnant and you are the father.So definitley the best solution for that is tell your parents that you're going to marry your girl.According to you your afraid cause your parents are against her and she might go mild depression if she come to know the situation.Well as I said you're now 29 and if you will talk to them softly and explain to them what you really feel they will surely understand you.Goodluck to you
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
I think the best thing is to share this with your father and other siblings first because you mother might get shock with the news especially with your current situation there.. But you could also try to slowly give her an idea about this but don't throw every details to her at once.. I think parents will then understand that sooner or later, do you really love your girl? and is willing to be with her despite the fact she's pregnant? If you do and it will make you happy then go for it, parents are there in order to help us in times of need.. And if you love the girl then they should understand that because you really love her.. You should also try to explain that you are mature and being responsible for your actions is one way to solve that problem..
@kayesteph08 (174)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
well for me, if i were you i will talk to my mother..and let her understand about your situation.and if still they disagree. i know there is a time they will accept your girlfriend..