what's the most difficult situation you encounter in life?
By prettyfeigh
@prettyfeigh (231)
Philippines
March 30, 2007 7:31pm CST
a pleasant day to everyone! please share the most difficult situation you encounter in our lives. As for me, death of a love one,she's the mother of my ex bf, im guilty until now because it was christmas day when she called me asking me why i havn't called them yet which i usually do every eve of christmas and new year, only to find out that he's not aware that her son and i broke up already but i still pay respect and call them every now and then its just that im not awake on christmas eve since im from a graveyard shift and im really tired because of the travel.In short, she got depress and that day i received a call from my ex father that she was rushed to the hospital after a few days she suffered from comatose and a day before new year she died..it's really a burden for me especially during the funeral because im close to them and to their relatives,i misses her so much and i treated her more than my mom.. so sad that i cannot be with her anymore..
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4 responses
@asteriskec (1074)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
I have encountered difficult situations many times over. But I could probably say that the most difficult situation was when I was at this point in my life where I had to choose between my family and a guy whom I thought at that time was the right one for me. I was too stupid to believe in love, youth, money and pomp. I felt lost and I almost made the wrong decision. Needless to say I gave it a lot of thought and I found God in the midst of things. I believe He guided me in choosing my family.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
wow! that's really tough but it's a good thing you were able to go through with it..thanks for sharing...
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
31 Mar 07
Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things in life but it is even harder when the doctors ask you if when that loved one is nearing the end, they ask you if you want their pain to be go on or do you just want them to be made comfortable until they die...I have been in this position three times now, it is very hard.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
yeah..its like mercy killing..but of course if she will just suffer and there's no guarantee on the person's life i've rather have her to take a rest..thanks for the comment.
@BrainTeaser (1428)
• Pakistan
31 Mar 07
The hardest time i ever had was the day i lost all my educational document along with those i lost entire property and legal documents,it was really tough day for me,i was almost got insane,didnt know what to do just thinking about the importance of the lost documents,was in situation like there is no exit,what to do and whom to tell,was too much afraid to tell family aswell as it would have brought the wrath on me,but thankfully two days after that i recieved that anonymous call and picked those document from some store,thanks to him,but those were the most annoying days of my life.
@nkkyluv (83)
• Nigeria
5 Apr 07
The worst situation i found myself was when i lost the nicest & kindest man in the world; my dad, he called me to say he wasnt feeling ok & told me to come back home, after 3 days, i got a call to say i was needed home, when i got home, people stopped talking, my mum even had to force a smile,i was not aware, everyone refused to tell me cos i was the closest to him, it was when i asked of him, that my mum gave in, it was hell for me, i cldnt think, i was lost...its past 10 yrs now, but the memory still lingers...
