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jsut ignore all her text messages is the best way dont let her text affect you in such a manner that your fuming with anger..lol..during the night just turn off your cellphone..or just get another sim..its the best way i guess..

Hmmm... you have a few options: A) I know it's hard, but if you ignore her completely for a couple weeks, this might stop. As in, don't talk to her, email her, respond to text messages, or even read the messages. B) If she's the only person who texts you, on some phones you have different rings for different types of things the phone can do: calls, voice mail, texts; and you could turn the texts signal to silent. Or if each person can have a ring on your phone, turn hers to silent. C) If she's not 18 yet, I'm guessing she still lives with your aunt and uncle? This might be a time to go over her head. I'm betting she's not paying for the phone, and I would hope they wouldn't approve of this. D) If you're willing to go this far, lie. Tell her you got rid of your phone? Give her a number you know to be out of service, and then claim she's the only one having a problem? E) This one's a little cruel. Tell her the truth in front of other people, people she wants the respect of. Ask her in front of her new bf why she'd rather text you drunk than talk to him. Ask her in front of her parents why she'd rather constantly text you than talk to her actual friends. Etc. Good luck!

If your cousin isn't going to listen to you and leave you alone, and if you can't block her number, than it doesn't look like you've any other option than to change your number. What I would do is make a list of all the numbers you have. Than when I got my new number I'd start by letting the most important people on the list know what my new number was. It may be an irritating task but if it gets your cousin to stop than it will be well worth it.

i think u told her that she is disturbing you by sending you messages and if she couldn't stop then gave her a tight slap,yes this is hurt her but only in that way u can get rid of her.

ignoring her is a good thing. and to stop her calling you, i would take the call, not answering and wait till she hangs up. do that some times and she stops because its to expensive. i hope it works.

That sucks sorry to hear about that. Remember those who anger us control us. Now onto the other side of it. I think she is definately looking for attention any way she can get it and even if you did change your number she might get it again and you would have went thru all that effort for nothing. As my drill instructor used to say there is a way to tell anyone to f'off while being tactful. If you are blunt with her and it still goes on why not have someone talk to her that she will respect your mother or hers I am thinking. I know she should respect your privacy but I think she is just dying for attention and probly wont let go till it is known how she is acting and if the family talks to her than she might be embarrassed because of her actions and decide not to do it anymore.

Well I do not know whhy her number can not be blocked I thught it was possible Lols I think you only have the Option of a new Mobile Number you can always give your new Number to all the other People I think that is the only option you have

yes lols.put your messages on silent first thing. and then find away to make her cell phone disappear i think this is the only way this can be done without changing your cell phone. good luck

The most effective way to get someone off your back is to ignore her. Just stop replying to her messages and pretend you have never received them. Try it! Once you take her to be invisible, she will get tired since you are not fun to play with anymore. :P

Sounds like she is a troubled youngster! ok Maybe your phone provider can't block her no but most phones allow you to block messages and calls from certain nos - have you had a good look round your menu to make sure you can't do this? If you can't I would simply ignore her - the more attention she gets , whether negative or positive , the more she will continue to call and text! Sorry this isn't more helpful but I hope you can get this sorted honey! xxx

chack in your phone, but my phone has the option of selecting each individual number it's own ring tone. When my hubby calls me, it rings a certain way, my family, etc. I have put various people on a "silent mode" and therefore my line does not ring when they call. I work midnight shift and sleep in the day, so I leave my phone on in case of an emergency at school for my kids. I have found this individual ring tone thing to be very helpful. I only have the sound on for certain numbers. If that is not an option for you phone, you can change your number as well. I work for a Police Dept in the US and you could tell her to stop or you will call the police. Usually when we get "harassing" phone call reports, all it takes is the police to call the person or show up in person to talk to them ONCE.. then they never do it again You can check in your area and see if the police respond to these calls, as I am sure they should. It may seem extreme, but maybe that is just what she needs.. a little dose of reality !!

well thats great......

I would like to say that first and foremost you should calm yourself down and not get so much angered by what is happening. It surely must be irritating but what really is happening is you're letting her make you get angered. You're giving your control to her. So don't let that happen. It surprises me to know that its not possible for your operator to block the no. It is possible for operators to do that. I have 2-3 friends who have numbers blocked. There is a facility in the mobile handsets itself to put in screen numbers - messages from those numbers are directly deleted. Do you have it in your handset? If not, I'm sure there must be some third party software available to do that. Search for one in forums.

I suggest you find her someone else to bother..a new date perhaps?

I know it must really rankle with you that you can't get her calls blocked, but if it's bothering you that much (and I can quite understand why), I really do advise you to change your number and let those important people know your new one. You shouldn't have to do that - you're quite right, and it is hassly, but I think the peace and quiet, and putting an end to her harrassment of you will be worth the effort. If it's the only way to stop her, which it sounds like it is, if she's not respecting your requests to stop pestering you, then it has to be worth taking the trouble. It's either going to be a case of letting her continue because of the principal, and getting madder and madder, or being proactive and doing something about it, which will solve your problem once and for all! Why suffer for longer than you have to :-)