confidence is built or inborn?

The word confidence can refer to 3 situations: 1. Our self confidence. This can be built or inborn. Sometimes a person can have inborn self confidence and may lose it facing the world. Then pep talk becomes necessary. Bhagavad Gita is the best example of pep talk. Krishna was the first Management Teacher, probably. www.bhagavadgitayb.blogspot.com. (my blog). Care: It is a criticism of Gita. 2. Our confidence in others: Inborn to start with. Children believe everybody. Experience hardens us. Then we tend to be selective. 3. Confidence of others in us: Depending on their experience with others, the persons who deal with us either have confidence / do not have confidence / or be intially wary and believe later.

I believe confidence can be built. but for some people they some how are confident naturall, may be they don't think twice about what they want, they know what they want.Or they could have learnt it from the environment they grew up in with confident people. Mostly confident people are the ones with lots of friends. so they don't have to be true friends but just keep a healthy relationship with people to get their support and in return you will be much more confident.