past issues i have not got over

You have been through hell. It's not your fault. You are so blessed to have your wonderful boyfriend. Ask him to go with you to a counselor. I'm sure he will. In one year, you will be amazed at how much better you feel. Don't let this get any worse. You deserve a happy life.

Rape is something that is hard to forget. However, I really say one thing when you choose to forgive the person who hurt you. but is very difficult thing. Please follow this, if some one hurt you, u show symphathy upon them, why .. ...? because god loves you, if u give some bread when u r enemy is hungry then u stands there.. God always watches you and helps you and please don't think about the past and try to learn some challenging things and work for it . It makes u to over come the past issues. all the best.

Rape is truly something that is difficult to get passed. I do not think you will every forget what happened to you. However, I have seen miracles happen when you choose to forgive the person who hurt you. Also an exremely difficult thing. I was raped and the same man who raped me molested my daughter when she was 3. I struggled just like you. But that little girl is the strongest person I know. She has not only forgiven him but told him so. She hasn't forgotten but she uses it to help others. I hope this encouraged you. We can talk more about it.

everyones nightmare what you had expreinced,,,,,, even it is been for a years now, the wounds, the times, the place its always still there ,, its like a shadow of the past that cant leave behind, why dont you try to forgive them ,,,,, i know its dificult for you , you have to start anew ,, just leaved it its been happeened already, just try to heal yourself, i know its very hard but you have to,,,, your man, your bf right now are just beside doing the things as he can ,,,,,, dont make the things worst its not to late ,,,,,,if not,,,,, try some counselling,,, it will help you lot ,,,,,,,, i know you can do it ,,,, think you can , you are the only one that can help yourself,,,,,,, just ask and pray,,, i know he always be with you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

There is a way out.The web site www.emofree.com has instruction on how to use an easy technique that you can do for yourself.It really can take away the intense feelings and emotions that you have.It doesn't make you forget but it is a powerful tool for healing.Please,please give it a try.

i believe whoever raped u is the bad person here. please do what u have to to stop being the victim here