Is it ok for my brother to date my girlfriend's sister
By swanniesbaby
@swanniesbaby (309)
Philippines
March 31, 2007 12:49pm CST
I brought my brother to my girlfriends birthday party. On the party i noticed that my brother is very much pre-occupied with a pretty girl and it happens to be my girlfriend sister.. After the party my brother told me that he really likes the girl (My GF's sister). is that ok? should i forbid it or should i encourage him?
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@swanniesbaby (309)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
well that's in the US. i'm really not sure if it's ok here in the Philippines
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@lbbaby (489)
• China
1 Apr 07
I think it's OK. But if they really start relationship, you will feel a little embarrassed, especially when they have a quarrel or something others. However, in a whole, if they really love each other, you should encourage him to seek for his true love.
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I would say "No". Don't encourage it because what if they find that they are truely in love and want to get married. But then, depends on how strong you and your gf are. It's a race to see who gets married first, really. As soon as one of you gets married, it makes the other couple "brother" and "sister" and that's too close to the family line.
@rogen_andrei (638)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
I guess there's nothing wrong with that. Though this happens so rarely, I don't think we have the right to condemn siblings who fell in love with somebody from the same family. I am a catholic, but I haven't heard any issues regarding this matter yet.
Well, if things go smoothly between you and your girlfriend, and your brother and your girlfriend's sister, then it calls for a celebration. :P
@spindrift (197)
•
31 Mar 07
I don't see why not you are not all related in ay way ??
So as long as there are no competetion between you lot it should be ok.
It will be the girls who will share every thing they feel about you guys if they are close sisters and may compare if thay are like that but if not it could be great.
@ozzydee70 (465)
• Germany
9 Apr 07
there's nothing wrong about your brother ( is he a younger brother? ) dating your gf's sister as long as his intention is clean and will not just play around, as it'll have an effect on you if he does..
@ChrissyGirl (135)
• Romania
2 Apr 07
Hey ! In my oppionion you shouldn`t even worry about this .. because in your gf`s sis`s place could`ve been any other girl .. so just let them get to know eachother better .. they`ll know if a relationship should be started or not .. as he didn`t interfeer in your relation .. you shouldn`t do that either .. no matter the person he wants to be with .. :)
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
If he likes the girl, then let him do what he wants to do. You have your own life and he had his own too. I mean, just because he's your brother doesn't mean you have to forbid him. For me, it must be cool if you're all connected to each other so you can group date or something like that without the feeling uneasiness. But if ever you forbid your brother, then let me have that pretty girl instead. Haha joke!
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