OMG! Please read this and tell me what you think!!!!!!

well, for one, not all men are like that. some are still honest-to-goodness guys. c',) but i can't deny the fact that we sometimes rate our partners lower than some women. but that doesn't necessarily mean that we'll be unfaithful right away. i'm not bringing up myself or anything here, but i guess i'm one of those honest few. i won't deny that i see a lot of "more" beautiful and sexier women out there. but that just makes me stronger, away from temptation. its pretty hard to get away, but its not impossible. c",) however, for your husband, i'm not really sure how to respond to that. men, as you know, are very very different, specially how go about our families. but i guess, if he really really loves you, then that shouldn't be a problem.

No, that doesn't explain why more men are unfaithful than women . they are more often unfaithful simply because they have more chances to be so. Most women spend their time at home with their children, or in the company of other females while men tend to socialize with other men and single women. If you can't have children and your husband wants to have his own offspring, you can always try a surrogate mother, the proceedure is done in a doctor's office and there is no physical contact between the surrogate ane the male. the hardest part of the procedure is finding someone willing to have a baby and give it up. If you can't find a woman willing to be a surrogate, then your husband will just have to suck it up and adopt. We can't have everything we want.

I think that article isn't news unless you just turned 14. It's one of those that get run to gain attention but really don't inform us of anything new. As far as your fertility issues, your choices are to adopt or try in vitro fertilization..with a surrogate or you can be impregnated yourself. Since fertility begins to decrease between the ages of 25 and 35, there are many women using surrogates and in vitro fertilization so it might not be very difficult for you to find a doctor to do the procedure. Be aware that they will fertilize as many eggs as they can, implant a few, and store the rest for a certain amount of time, though. Be sure to think about how you would feel having to tell the storage lab to discard the unused, but fertilized, eggs. Also remember that the chance for birth defects is still going to be about the same in this situation, as it is for women over the age of 30.

well....I dun understand why women are always safe and why men are only at blames... I am sorry but I wouldnt agree...coz I am a man!!! and not only coz I am a man but becuase I have seen so so so mnay men=---- but none actually have been found cheating someone---infact all of them are so much monotonic to their love lifes....however I have seen so mnay women cheating on their own husbands, in some cases their kids too...and that actually is ridiculuos,....but still i wouldn't prefer to say that most women cheat....and not even that why do more women cheat than men? COz I know they don;t..... it isnt a matter of gender actually....it is rather a concept of a human being, from a not very sound and honest state of mind, being unfaithful or cheat...

I don't think that it explains to me why some men will be unfaithful. Just because they can respond to visual stimuli doesn't mean that they have to act on it. I truly think that there are a lot of men out there with integrity and honour who wouldn't cheat no matter what. If your husband loves you, he will he will accept the fact that he will not have biological offspring. There are routes you can follow that previous members have listed and they are available if you are comfortable with them. Not all men are incapable of accepting the children of others. When we got married we knew that it would be difficult for me to get pregnant. By the grace if God we did eventually have two children and hope for more, but my husband was willing to adopt if it didn't happen.

I think its a bunch of crap to give men excuses for cheating.

maybe just for the reason that their thirst for intimate lifestyle....

There are good men that don't follow what this article says. They take a group of people and than determine that is how people act. Hog wash! Each person is a individual. You and your husband need to sit down and have a good heart to heart so that you both understand where the other is coming from. I Know your husband wanted biological babies but give him a little credit. He loves you and understands that you are having a hard time carring a baby. You both need to give each other moral support. It effects both of you that you have had four miscarriages. But it can make your marriage stronger. Don't let your appearance go down hill. You need to keep yourself looking good. Not just for your husband but for yourself. To boister your confidense. Don't read these articles and start thinking things. These articles are just that nothing more. Do little things to show him you appreciate him. Communication is the most important you need between him and you.

Thats why they have surrogate mother programs where you have a biological baby from your husbands on sperm. If he thinks that its ok for cheating to occur just because you are infertile, then he's got another thing coming. You cannot allow him to do what is wrong because you were born the way you were, you are special and for some reason you aren't able to have children.

I'm also here for the money. I'm writing crap here for the money. soon i think it is a total waste of time because i spend hours and i still only get let then a dollar. Please my lot please increase the ratings.