how much attention does your husband or partner pays to your looks?

@eshaan (6188)
India
April 1, 2007 4:01am CST
My husband is very indifferent to what I am wearing or how I am looking. When I get my facial done, he just gives a look, and if I ask 'what you are looking'he just says it is looking somewhat clean. Does ur partner looks with great interest at you, and praises you a lot?
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@maucute (979)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
Yes, he does.. He would suddenly look at me and say that I'm beautiful, I would then hide my face on his shoulder.. hehe I'm shy too but I love how he does that, it's really sweet, I mean even if it's just a small thing he never failed to notice..
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
3 Apr 07
WOW! What a romantic scene! Don't be shy now because I can't see you through my PC, but of course! I can imagine.
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@mpshiva6 (65)
• India
3 Apr 07
As a husband for 17 years, even now I give a lot of importance to my wife's looks. The same is the case with her. We both enjoy dressing up to each other's likings. I really love my wife to take care of her physical appearance. I believe that a good physical appearance is as important as a good brain. Further it is this indifference to one's physical appearance that lead to partners seeking someone outside their marriage. I feel it is mostly the fault of husbands who dont care or appreciate their wive's appearance, while they praise good looks and good body on others.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
3 Apr 07
welcome the only male response to my discussion. I am very glad that there are such males,enjoy life with each other. May God give such brains to all the man.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
1 Apr 07
He does notice if i cut my hair or does something that radically changes me. He also notice whenever I get a new perfume and so on. he is always complimening me thouhg, for small things and that feels good =)
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
1 Apr 07
NICE! Atleast he pays attention and complements you. These small things add fragrance to your life.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
1 Apr 07
No, my partner doesnt usually comment about my looks. I would take this as a compliment that he doens't say anything. He probably thinks y9u look beautiful regardless so that is why he isn't ocmmenting.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
1 Apr 07
I know that he considers me a good match for him. But if someone says few words atleast sometimes it adds to your relationship.
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@ANITA2412 (117)
• India
2 Apr 07
ya my bf pays a lot of attention on my looks!infact i do all my shopping with himwhenever i go out on a date with him he tells me what to wear and what not to wear!he tells me what hairstyle suits me and what doesnt!he compliments me on almost eveery date i go out with him!hmmmm but i don't know what will the case be after marriage or after some more years!nopw it has been 2 yreas that we have been going around!but he fails to notice when i have done a clean up or have done anything on my face!he just tells me i am looking good!but doesnt really realises its because of the clean up or facial that i have done!may be he thinks i am naturally that beautiful!!!hehehhe!lol!
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
2 Apr 07
Nice to hear that he pays so much attention, but I think it is because, he is yet your bf. Tell me after some years what is the case, if at all we both remain here on mylot for that much time. Till that time Good Luck and let him think that you are that beautiful, don't reveal the secret.
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@nietske (199)
• Belgium
2 Apr 07
I am very lucky. My partner does give me a large amount of compiments. He notices when I wear a new outfit, when i have my eyebrows done, when i wear make up,... If your husband gives you little praise, try wearing something sexy, maybe that'll attract his attention?
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
3 Apr 07
Thanks for your response, You are the lucky ones to have such partners! All of you have suggested me so many things, but I think it's very difficult to change the basic nature of a man.
@RebeccaLynn (2256)
• United States
3 Apr 07
My husband and I have been married for twelve years. It will be 13 years in May. He always compliments me. Everyday, sometimes several times a day, he tells me that I'm beautiful. He tells me he is blessed to have me in his life. He still holds doors for me and gets ruffled if another man "glances" at me for too long. He still holds my hand and makes me feel beautiful even when I'm ill and I know I look like crud. eshaan, tell your husband how you feel. Let him know that it's important to you to hear nice things from him. He won't know how much it bothers you if you don't tell him. Start complimenting him everyday too. Tell him how handsome he is and how much you love him. Tell him how good it feels to have his arms around you. Find even little things to compliment him on. He'll start to notice how good it feels to hear nice things from you and before you know it, he'll start complimenting you in return.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
3 Apr 07
Thanks for your response and suggestion but I think it is very difficult to change a person's habit.
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• Canada
1 Apr 07
My Sweetheart pays a lot of attention to my looks in that no matter what I do I look good, I look unique, because I am ME!!! He does not think I need to do anything special to look good, that I look good because of who I am, and because he loves me.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
1 Apr 07
Lucky , you must be feeling very nice, when he praises you. My husband loves me too, thats very clear, but his way of thinking is different. He feels there is no need to say anything about looks, he believes we know each other very well.
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• United States
1 Apr 07
My husband doesn't really seem to pay much attention to my looks. If I am wearing something he doesn't like he will sometimes tell me. When I get my eyebrows waxed he doesn't even notice!
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
1 Apr 07
Same is the case here. I don't know whether they really don't notice or pretend to do so?
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@spindrift (197)
1 Apr 07
My hsband is the same unless we are giong out then may say I look good or comment that I should ware my hair up. we have been married 6 years now and think they just stop putting the effort in to little things like telling us how good we look we know when we do not look good and thats when we may like a little notic to know he still likes me even if I look how I feel .
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
1 Apr 07
Its o.k. some have different thinking. But sometimes we feel something missing when we expect that he should say something.
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