Do you assume someone is gay by what they are wearing?

@diablouk (598)
April 1, 2007 7:18am CST
Do you think gay men dress a certain way? Have you ever seen someone and assumed they were gay because of what they were wearing? There used to be certain "looks" and images perceived as being a very gay look but, as more and more straight men seem to follow gay fashion statements, can you now tell if someone is gay simply by his look?
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
We cannot definitely pinpoint a man if he's a gay if we judge what they are wearing unless they wear bra.
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@diablouk (598)
1 Apr 07
LOL I know loads of straight men who look like they need to wear a bra
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
tell them to wear a bra with matching thong! hahaha
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@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
nope! some gays are not wearing the right thing for them. i mean some are cross dressers some are not. you can't really base your judgment on the physical look of a person. also, being judgmental is a bad habit so better take that away from your attitude list he he
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@diablouk (598)
1 Apr 07
I'm the least judgemental person I know Dressing gay doesn't mean cross dressing though
• Australia
1 Apr 07
I can tell if they are gay usually by the way they act and talk, clothing dos'nt say gay or straight, usually the way they speak and act gives gay men away.
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@borzack (597)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
i think more and more straight guys are into trendy and fashion stuffs, they're called metrosexuals if i'm not mistaken. and it's kinda hard to tell sometimes. but sometimes it's easy because the 'straight looking gay guy' is surounded by his obvious looking gay friends around him :) but if he's a lone, probably harder to guess. i dunno.
@borzack (597)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
oh my god, i officially have a red star now :) kewlness!
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@angel68 (138)
• United States
11 Apr 07
i dont think gay men dress a certain way but i do think they have that special shake to them lol. it use to be that pink on a man was gay but when my son wears a pink shirt he has i think he looks gorgeous in it and he is no where near being gay. so i really dont think its how they dress.
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@codywest (78)
1 Apr 07
I think I dress gay, especially when I go out clubbing. I hadn't been home for a few years cos I had moved away and was only back to see some friends. Anyway, we went clubbing in a straight club. I did worry a little because I thought I was dressed really gay that night but when I got into the club, most of the straight boys looked gayer than me
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@maferick (1583)
• Brazil
13 Apr 07
i am not sure if has a tipical style of gay people to dress..but i am pretty sure that they have a great way to do it..they take care abnout all details at their outlooking,i think its great.My gay friends are best to when the talk is how to dress,they know all about it..they are very fashion and i love it in then.. :)
@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
17 Aug 07
No, I have found some straight men to be just as stylish as most gay men are. For me I can usualy tell by the way some of them speak, you know like in that high pitched voice or how they say things like honey and girlfriend a lot.