if you could change one thing about your other half what would it be?

That one is easy for me, I would have him accept and share his emotions more. He holds everything in and builds a big cement wall around his emotions so I can't even get in to them. He thinks that is the way it should be. Kind of like you, easymoney, if I didn't know him so well I wouldn't know it when he is expressing love. Thank God he is good about expressing it 'in his own way'.

I would make him less lazy. Then he could help me more around the house, heh.

its unfair to try and change sumthing about the other half as no one loves a change less the baby in nappies, still if given a chance i will go for change in her sleeping habbits as she snores a lot

He'd be much less judgemental and much more openminded (although that's changed a lot with time already). He has a tendency to jump to conclusions about people based on what he's heard or their appearance and never gives them a chance to show their true colors. He also has a lot of strong opinions (based from childhood, very strong Christian morals) that aren't really founded and sometimes it drives me nuts. Thankfully, debate is my strong suit and I'm kind of a pitbull when it comes to getting someone to look at it from the other side.. I rarely let down.

I would like to calm my fiance down a bit. He gets so stressed out and high strung about work and since we run our business from the house he has a hard time just stepping away and taking a break. So I would really like him to just chill out. We're trying to work on that.

i would want my someone to be honest, like to be happy and satisfied with what i can do, i believe that each of us is unique in ways so i want her to accept me for what i truly am, and to not just love me but appreciate me in small things that i do..