Is there really love at first sight??
By ignition14
@ignition14 (22)
Philippines
April 1, 2007 10:28am CST
many people im sure, are asking this question to thereselves or to otheres if there is really love at first sight..
heres a fact:
love at first sight occurs in when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment. we call this infatuated love, which can arise in an instant, it involves a great deal of physiological arousal, and lasts varying lengths of time, becuase there is no intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is likely to fade away
now in your opinion? do you believe or is there really love at first sight? whay say so??
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4 responses
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Yes, love at first sight is just an infatuated affection to another person. It's not really love itself. It's simply liking a person in terms of his or her physical appearance, the way he or she moves, etc. Love is totally different from liking a person. In forming a relationship, we need to follow several steps. One of the steps id courting, of course. It's definitely not an instant affair. I don't believe in that. Love grows over time. Love involves commitment and deep responsibility. It's not a past time, I should say. It's like your job that you need to allot your time, efforts, and your feelings to make it memorable and long lasting.
@rica_12 (93)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
actually im not believing in love at first sight?i dont know why but im not! cause i dont believe that and im not easy to fall in love,.i know every one who felt that is believing but for e im not believe in love at first sight..
@happy2bmommy (305)
• United States
1 Apr 07
i dont think there is. i do beleive that there is LUST at first siight. maybe there is even LIKE at first sight. there is no such thing as love at first sight though. love takes time to grow and fourish. i cant beleive that someone would actually say that they fell in love with a complete stranger just by their looks. that to me would be lust. if you see someone and feel a flutter, thats not love, thats infatuation or like or lust. it took me a long time to honestly say that i loved my bf, who is now my husband. i didnt, and still dont take that word lightly. it is something so deep.
@diablouk (598)
•
1 Apr 07
I met my partner via the internet, I'd seen a photograph but it wasn't clear so I only had a rough idea what he looked like.
When we eventually met, I remember seeing him walk towards me at the train station and I fell in love with him there and then. He had the clearest blue sparkling eyes, the most dazzling smile and I though he was totally beautiful.
So although I had spoken to him before then, for me it was love at first sight