Love must be an illusion
By ronney47
@ronney47 (109)
Nepal
April 1, 2007 10:43am CST
When we are with our beloved ones, we feel so nice, so warm, totally complete. When we get apart, the heart is so difficult to control. The pain cannot be described in words. But after few months, years, there is nothing like that. The heart starts to get cheerful without the beloved. It seems that we were stupid to get attached so deeply to the person. If we see other people crying in pain due to failure in love, we consider them as emotional fool. What I want to say is, isn't love an illusion? Isn't it just an attachment?
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@calenduli (47)
• Nepal
28 Apr 07
My friend love certainly is illusion. There is nothing proof of the love. It cannot be seen. It can only be seen. We sometimes feel that what we think love is ... is totally wrong. So love certainly is illusion.
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@ronney47 (109)
• Nepal
4 May 07
Yes, I also believe the same. You talked about no proof of love and it can't be seen. Exactly, how many times our loved ones turn their face away from us and leave us alone behind. Well, at that moment, who do we go and tell what has happenned? We are left alone to panic. And more interestingly, the wound gets filled slowly and slowly until we find interest in new ones.
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
1 Apr 07
No I don't believe true love is just an attachment . I have seen ohters that were upset and crying from the pain they felt as a failure and have always felt bad and tried to support this person and the way they felt and tried to convince them that with time , things would be better and they would find someone that appreciated them more .
In the beginning of a relationship I don't believe it is so much an illusion as it is the couple trying to do everything they can to keep the other person interested and so they hide things about themselves that they fear the other person might not like thus scaring them away , but as you are with someone for awhile , you get to know the person better as each person is willing to lower their defenses and let each see who they really are .
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@dprabin (130)
• Nepal
3 Apr 07
There is nothing like true love, since it is an illusion. According to you, love is just the good feeling, that is greed to the possible physical pleasure.
@dprabin (130)
• Nepal
3 Apr 07
We always want something, the thing by which we could be complete. Love is the distraction in our journey to completeness. We become convinced that we become complete when we are with the person. But when the person is departed temporarily or permanently, we feel the need of that person. Thus we are not complete in any aspect. If we could love all the universe like the person we love, then that would not be illusion.
Love is Illusion. Illusion is just another word used to describe love exactly.
