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That is really good news , I have so many online friends at different stages of this terrible disease , some have had the all clear and some are still having treatment , I know what you mean about people just going , my parents both have Alzheimers , and every day with them is just so precious, none of us know what it in front of us or how long we will be with or have our loved ones xx xx

I never used to think much about here to day and gone tomorrow until I had my heart attack in 2001. I quite often think we'd better live as if today is our last day here because it may very well be. I'm sorry but I have no faith wherever cancer is concerned. I lost my dad to cancer he was only 59 years old. I'd say if you can possibly get to see your cousin before it's too late then by all means go. If you can't go then maybe a phone call. It's always nice to hear a friendly voice when you're not well. Best Wishes

I am glad that she is getting better and I do hope it is still the Case and that she has not got worse again Yes I do sometimes think about and try to imagine not seeing my Friends, my Kids and all the things I love anymore. I try not to think about it though as it upsets me to much.

First of all let me tell you that i'm happy to hear that. don't feel so much sorry as u cud not meet her. try to meet her. again in life i feel like dying when nothing goes right with me. after haering about somebody's illness i generally think of my longivity.

I'm glad to hear about a positive development. It is really hard to fight cancer. But it is not impossible to win. There are some cases where people survive Cancer, not muchm but still there is a possibility so don't ever lose hope. But one thing that you should keep in mind is that you should take each day everyday like there will be no tomorrow. Do not hesitate to make your loved ones feel that you love them and even hear it from you and also how much you care about them. You don't know what the future holds for all of you, for all of us. We might not be here tomorrow or one of our loved ones may be taken away from us. So always remember to not take anyone you love for granted.

Wow, that's an interesting question. + for you. I guess I could say I'm not a psychotic about that, but I tend to think about "wow, I remember when I was learning to ride a bike and that was 12 years ago", "I was at school the other day, now I'm graduating on college", this kind of stuff. I'm always amazed (although I shouldn't, everybody knows that) of how fast life goes by. And I don't worry about any accident or anything that can take my life in the very next minute, I'm one of those who think "if it has to happen, it will happen". But I'm always thinking of how fast we can get old. The other day it was that "girls, yuck!" childish thing, now I'm thinking about marriage. It's very fast! So I value my life not when I see someone involved in an accident, I value it because of the things I thought I was going to accomplish with certain age and I've did it. Or the other way around: I should live more, since I didnt achieve that goal. Great topic you have there. =]

I dont think that often since it will cause only fear on me, i rather think of good things in the past and my family.