Do u become stronger after getting ditched by your beloved

no, i don't become stronger, i become afraid in a way because i think all the time that anyone around me can ditch on me, it's hard, it's better to have a lots of friends who stay around you, you will feel much better

You know, i'd say, that this thing differs for different people. I mean, being ditched by someone you loved, or being rejected by someone you've always loved your life, is something that's really very difficult to bear. I know that time is a great healer, but in my particular case, it's been many months, but i've not been able to get over it. I mean, i still love her just as much, and i would love to tell her about this, but she's in love with someone else! So, things are more or less bad for me these days. I know, that i may or may not get over this. But if i do get over it, i'll probably end up being more stronger!